I'd like to encourage the silent people. I had anxiety about posting, at first. But, I realized it's just because this was a new experience. I have never done anything like this before. From personal experience, everyone here is very kind and understanding. No one judges anyone or thinks anything bad about anyone. If you participate, you will find more specific answers that you are looking for and by sharing your experiences, you will help others. We value you and your opinions. It's okay to be silent, because we are glad you are here. But why not try to step out of your comfort zone. Don't get caught up in the "What if's" What will people think, etc. Instead of thinking of what could go wrong, think of what could go right: you could find help, help others, and make a lot of friends. We think you're great, we are all here for you whenever you're ready. If you take a leap, we will catch you. Your friend Shari
Today is a gift, that's why they call it the present. I find that by staying in the present it's easier to stay positive. For me, anxiety can creep in when I think about the future. For example, an upcoming road trip, or a doctor appointment. I'm not there yet, so if I put it out of my mind until the actual time arrives, I feel less stressed. Also, anxiety can creep in when I think about the past. I can't go back and change things, but I can change my attitude about it. I just tell myself that, "I did the best that I could, with the knowledge I had, at the time."