Success
Hello all,
I haven't been around in a while, but I'm happy to report I'm still having great success. Regrettably I do not recall the last time I drank, so I'm not sure how long I have been sober. I do know it has been more than a month.
I have lost 10 pounds and ran my first 5k and am planning to run in the 'run for your lives' obstacle/zombie race in Toronto later this month. I was amazed at how much weight I lost by quitting alcohol consumption, and how much energy and motivation I have gained.
I have picked up 2 more part-time jobs so I'm currently working 4 jobs including one where I'm assistant manager of a sports bar.
I have spoken at length with my doctor about my drinking, and he was unable to offer any really useful help or information, she tested my liver, and found it to be damaged. The liver specialized has decided it is most likely damaged from prolonged drug use (Acetaminophen/Cocaine) rather than alcohol. In any event I'm otherwise reasonably healthy for a girl like myself. I've gotten started on a new natural health regimen that includes vitamins and minerals for liver support as well as multivitamins and calcium as well as hormone balancing combinations.
Hopefully with some luck my liver will heal and I'll be better than ever. Oddly though, just being sober makes me feel like I'm already better than ever.
The best part of all of this is the following:
my living situation has not changed.. I still have the same super loser boyfriend who drinks and smokes cigarettes and smokes weed daily... (I'm soooo seriously done with him... its just a matter of finances before I can move out)
it was a struggle but I managed to kick the booze without changing any other part of my life.. there is 48 beer in my fridge.. I'm just not the least bit interested in drinking them... I serve in a bar and do not feel inclined to pour myself one.
After fruitless efforts at finding professional help it seems it was my own mind over matter that has done the job again. I'm not sure why this seems to work for me and not for most other people, I would be interested in speaking with a neuroscientist who researches addiction and brain related issues to see whether or not my previous brain surgery has anything to do with my ability to seemingly walk away from things that others normally cannot. I am after all missing my emotional memory and mood control from one side of my brain.. perhaps that has in some way affected my reward/pleasure centre making it easier to stop behaviours that for others can become permanent life long struggles?
This is not to say that I think I'm free of addiction, I'm just saying that perhaps stopping is easier for me. I will not put myself in a position where I would be expected to consume alcohol because that is just unnecessary risk, the same applies to the narcotics I have proven to have had issues with in the past as well as cigarettes. I have stopped and I choose to stop for ever, not just for now.
well that's it for now... I'm going to cruise the forum to check on other people awesome breakthroughs and successes!