Back to the venting.
On the 20th the bank (won't name any names but they have a lion for the mascot) decided to take two months mortgage payments out of my joint mortgage account and paid my husband's overdraft. Now they are holding all of our accounts till we pay back everything we owe them. They say they will not sue us but will continue the holds until every dime is paid back. We have explained our situation but the woman (with the same name as my mom and ex-stepmother) said she doesn't care make arrangements and pay it all or we cannot access our accounts.
Got a new bank account at another bank, so I can at least still pay the regular bills and get food, my hubby opened an account at an even different bank. We went to see the bariatric surgeon yesterday with full clearance from the respirologist to set the date for the gastric sleeve surgery and the bariatric surgeon still won't give us a date for my husband to have his surgery. After a very frustrating week we thought things may be looking up and boom again down we go.
My hubby bought a bottle of rum and a bottle of sammy (he doesn't normally drink alot) and didn't come to bed last night till 4 in the morning (he woke me up to get a blanket). So grumpy, tired, working, stressing, switching all direct deposits, running to the bankruptcy trustee, filling out papers and discussing legalities of what the bank has done, and automatic withdrawals ready to call it quits and hide in my bed.
I am still trying not to take all of this personally, it is very difficult but I am reminding myself that it is just how the world works and I have to learn to deal with it constructively. Maybe, I will try to find something else to occupy myself. Ooh yeah WII Super Mario I will try that later.
Deep breath, deep breath, this will soon pass. Deep breath, deep breath.
