Diva news...
Hey guys,
Thanks for all the replies!
Me and my hubby did not talk yesterday. He came home and went straight to bed without talking to me. But this morning I told him we needed to talk. And after a few harsh words and some tense moments we did manage to get a good dialogue going. He even stopped playing hi video games while we talked. We spoke for 45 minutes about. Then he asked for a time out. I think by then he was on overload. So we decided we had done enough for today. He did say we could take it back up tomorrow though which is a good sign, I think. So I am not sure what to think for now but that is where things sit.
There have been some tense moments today between me and him but no fights. I think me being so tired and cranky and anxious and sad is not helping the tension. But I have been trying to take good care of myself today.
Wildcat- I so often feel like running over his computer with the car! But I doubt that would be a solution lol. Thanks for letting me know you understand though!
Faryal- Yes at least he came home. I am not sure what to learn from this. I know now that we need some serious discussions but I already knew that lol. I really do want to reconcile though. I think there is a lot more to this then I comprehend. I guess I will just hve to try and talk more with him and see. I think I might be starting to get some understanding though and that is a start.
Mom of 3- I do want to reconcile. And yes, this fight started with something so stupid but I know there is more to it then that underneath it all. My husband doesn't talk much so it is a painstaking process to figure out what is his perspective on things and what is bothering him. It makes having a good idea of what is going on very difficult! But we did talk and we ae supposed to talk again tomorrow. For the most part we are doing our own little thing seperately today. But considering I am exhausted, it might be best. But yes, t is a long difficult road.HAng in there, so will I.
Rose- Yeah maybe he is an addict. I do not know how a video game addict is defined. But eyah he might be. He might also be depressed. Who knows. I guess I have enough problems of my own to focus on though. I guess he will have to take care of his own. Oh bleh! I don't know I am tired. I love him and I want to fix things with him. That is all I know for sure atm. As for unplugging things, I don't think that is possible for now.I guess I will have to work around it. We are trying to talk though.
As for peeing in all for corners, it nearly came to it. Glad it gave you a chuckle lol. Gave me one too!
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