Dont you people get it!!
b]You made very valid points in your post but when your were a smoker or just newly quit was it that easy for you to think, feel and say these same thoughts??[/b]
BJ, Please understand this: When I was a new quiter like yourself, it was not easy by no means. I experienced all that everyones else did. When I quit, (and you can ask jose) I was a basket case. I was depressed, anxious, miserable and I went through a hell of a time with this. I was no stonger than anyone else. However, after reading through all the posts (and I spent countless hours doing that)I realized that I must take a different approach to this thing. I had to come up with a plan that was not going to fail me as I failed many times b4. So I got intouch with myself and I convinced myself tht cigs were going to distroy me and the 4 people in my life that I loved the most. They are, Lori, Gina, Sabrina and Jim jr. So I got mad, I mean plum dog mad. I threw chairs around the room, I screamed at the top of my lungs, I kicked and stamped on the pack of winston, I hugged my family and told them that I was so sorry for ever starting to smoke. I took the advice from the support team and I ran with this quit! I never looked back, not once. Why? Because I love my family and I was sick and tired of puffing on albuterol. I was sick of smelling like an ashtray. I was sick of hearing my family cough from my smoking and I was sick of my kids getting ear infections. So to answer your question, yes, it was easy but not at first. I had to retrain my thinking using my thought process. I had to make several changes in my life. But most importantly, I had to stick to my plan and see it through. This is not easy. It is the hardest thing we all have ever tried to accomplish. BJ, I now concider myself as antismoking advocate. I hate what these things did to my life and my family and I tell it to the tabaco companies all the time! So my friend, keep your thoughts strong, stay in contact with your self and fight the urge every time it appears. Get very angry at what you did to yourself for so many years. Now correct it and change your whole lifestyle. You are not looking at a demond, you are looking at something that you created years ago. And if you created it, you can stop it to. Please BJ, listen to the support cr