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This holiday season isn?t going to break me!

Hi KristenW88, I just want to say that  I appreciate you sharing what's going on in your life while you stay quit. I admire your determination and perseverance. I think that although you are not able to spend Christmas with your children this year, you are giving them the gift of a smoke free mom when you do get to spend time with them, and that has to be priceless. Hugs, DeniseK
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Quitting after 23 years 2 packs a day

Well, the hardest part was deciding to do it and then actually doing it. I do have craves but mostly it's the habit. I struggle sometimes after 41 years of smoking. I don't know who I am without that noxious smoldering weed stuffed in my face. But I strongly recommend you follow the directions on the box, because the NRT gives you the time to address those habits and face situations with some assistance. So far you have not had too many craves, but you might in the future, so planning out exactly what to do when they occur is a really good idea. See ya around the site, DeniseK
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welcome!

Hi cvdeb, I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your journey and for being honest, about all of it. DeniseK
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Gonna quit for good this time!!!!

Hi! As another stop-n-start-n-stop again quitter, I'm here to tell you that you can do it! Each time you quit, you learn more about yourself and the addiction. Your attitude is positive and you definitely want it bad enough. You do have to want to quit more than you want to smoke. Simple. NOT easy, simple. Distract yourself, post, and read here. You go, girl! DeniseK
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scared smokeless

Hi Caro, just wondering if you are still around? Come back and update us on what's happening. I quit because I have chronic bronchitis. Those are fancy words for a constant infection in the lungs.I was wheezing, I couldn't breathe, I couldn't walk 2 feet without huffing and puffing. Guess what? I still smoked! Now I don't and I'm breathing better and I can walk 1/8th of a mile without wheezing! And that all happened within 3 weeks. Can you imagine how much better it will feel after 3 months? Hang in there, you can do this. DeniseK
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Monday morning stats parade

Here I am with my almost 24 days...proudly marching with the big guns...  DeniseK
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Coming Up on Five Years Woohoo!

Thank you for that, SamiJoFL, it's really good to know that it's a great decision all the way around. Oh, and YaaaaHoooo for you! DeniseK
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28 days or 4 weeks...

   Someone said somewhere on this site that they thought you had to experience (and beat) each trigger at least once before you had them all licked. Well, having indulged my addiction for 45 years (I started at age 12), there are too many triggers to experience (and beat) each one at least once. So I started putting them into categories. Vehicles (not just driving but riding, too...such a silly distinction), working (and not just at work but any task I'm doing, such as homework or gardening or reading on this site), breaks, emotions, and rewards. I know there are others, but for now these are the major categories. As I experience one category, I say to myself, that's one category experienced without a stinky stick. When I have an urge, not to say a crave, really, and I'm telling myself that I "want" a smoke, I change it to  "no, I was just accustomed to having a smoke in this situation, and now I've experienced it without one, so another category beaten to a pulp"...It might take awhile for all the categories to realize they are out gunned and to stop trying, but I'm bound and determined to breathe without an oxygen tank on my back. I am already breathing much better and in fact I have quadrupled my elliptical trainer time (shhhh, don't tell anyone, but I started out at 20 seconds and was out of breath, so it really isn't so great yet, but I'm going to quadruple that, and then quadruple that, etc.).
   I think, therefore, I have arrived, at 4 weeks without one puff. My God, it's not easy, but it is simple. Don't smoke, whatever the trigger (or category). I am proud to have accomplished 28 days today! And thank you to this site, too; I tend to read more than I post. Happy 4 weeks/28 days to me! Oh, and my reward was yesterday - I got my hair highlighted and cut. And very nice it is, too! I love it. DeniseK
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28 days or 4 weeks...

Thank you, Ashley. It's good as a non-smoker because I can breathe. 
 
Jim, my friend, you're always there for me, thanks a heap! I will try to get a pic of the 'new' do soon. 
 
DeniseK 
12 years ago 0 74 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
4 Years!

Yahoo for you! I'm encouraged that it can be done and that you so rarely think of smoking. Thanks for sharing the hope!
 
DeniseK