I haven't yet quit! My quit date is the 9th. I changed it a few days ago. I just don't feel the same drive to quit as I did. I'm depressed and sad and just not feeling it. Can't get myself motivated to go to the gym as usual. Services for Shane are not until Friday and it's been a very hard week ALREADY!
I don't really know where I am at with this right now.
I know it will happen for me. Don't know if it will be Saturday or some other day, but it will happen. This is the first time I've set a quit date. I've quit 3 times in my life. The first time I was in my twenties and I quit for 2 years. The second time was for 7 months and the third time was about 4 years ago and I last 2 months. Each time I just quit. I'm not throwing in the towel but I just don't have any energy for the excited of it that I felt the first week I was on this site. We'll see what happens. It is very important for me to be on here and see all the support though. I quit drinking 6 years ago and I just quit that too. I have a support group that keeps me that way and I will do this as well, however I know that when it time, I will do it. It will feel right and it will be ok for me. I just hope that time is soon.
Terry
The whole thing is that I haven't really given as much thought to the quit as I was. That's why it doesn't feel like I'm going to be able to follow thru with it. Smoking is the hardest thing ever for me to let go of out of anything I've ever done. I know, I know! Mind Set! Well that's the way it is for me.
Cassy, looks like you are doing good. Thanks for the postive words all of you.
Possibly I am trying to phych myself out of quitting and then again possibly I am just having a hard time being positive or energetic about anything. This loss has hit me real hard and I just don't seem to have the energy. We'll see what happens on Saturday morning after all the funeral and everything is over.
I find it very wonderful that I am getting all this support from people that don't even know me. Thank You!
That is exactly what I plan to do. Everything you said.
Feeling very, very sad. Thanks Kelly
I'm not sure if I'm ready for Saturday, only saturday morning will tell. If not then I'll start over and set a new date.
Thank You everyone for your wonderful support. The funeral service was beautiful and Shane was sent off with lots and lots of love.
I will not be quitting tomorrow, but have not given up. I will check back in here regularly and work at getting myself back on track. I know everyone means well, but really, it does take being in the right space and time to do this. I have let my eating and my physical exercise go to hell this past couple of weeks and I need to be in a better place there before I can do the quit. And I will get there, guaranteed.
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