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Feels like hell week all over!!

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Just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do doesn't mean it's useless.
- Thomas A. Edison

I love reusing things, and sometimes think I'm looking for an application for a problem that doesn't exist.  Also, I have a lot more "stuff" than I need!
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Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world.
Arthur Schopenhauer
 
One reason I've become overwhelmed is that I find I become vulnerable to and aware of situations that I wouldn't allow myself to see.  When I open up to those situations, and take away defenses, I become unsettled.  I suppose at some time I had to defend myself. 
 
I see so many more possibilities, but I wish I wasn't so afraid
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The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible.
- Richard M. DeVos


Every day it would help to plan for the important question: what is my will...everything else will follow.
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Just don't give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration, I don't think you can go wrong.
- Ella Fitzgerald


That love and inspiration is often multiplied, and not predictable or appreciated...until it is gone and missed
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He can who thinks he can, and he can't who thinks he can't. This is an inexorable, indisputable law.
- Henry Ford


The automotive icon above reminds me that it's funny that cars are built with gears similar to my decision-making.  Forward is positive, backward is negative, and neutral is indecision
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Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
- Confucius

Failing is sometimes seen as a "fault", but it's part of everyday living, with the emphasis on rising, and supporting each other so we can persevere continuing to rise when we see each other fall
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Failure does not count. If you accept this, you'll be successful. What causes most people to fail is that after one failure, they'll stop trying.
- Frank Burford

So what Mr Burford suggests is that failure is not responding to failure, not making a common mistake
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Some men have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can.
- Willis Whitney


What's the difference between the reason i can do something and cannot, in terms of quality of life?
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Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one.
- Hans Selye

Response is the subtle operative word, since if we can control stress, what can stop us?
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Failure is an event, never a person.
- William D. Brown


 
All-or-nothing thinking can be the source of this detour from productive thinking

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