Thanks Gabs, you are so right, "educate women, you educate the world, educate the man, and he looks after himself". I laughed so hard when I read this because it is so true in my life. He has a lot of baggage from his past and he's dealing with it by not dealing with it. His whole family all have the same issues. But I'm not his secretary, I'm not his maid, I'm suppose to be his wife. He doesn't know how to deal with the family issues...he is his father and that scares me to death. And I tell him, I will not be your mother, I will not sit around and cater to him anymore. I'm starting a volunteer position on Monday, I can hardly wait (he wanted to know if I get paid for this), and I also quilt and belong to a book club. I do have interests other than him and I think that bothers him...sorry about your luck...right.
Sorry, I am rambling and rambling...I was told not to give up and show him you are an equal. Gabs, you're so right, it's just funny you are saying what I'm thinking. Have a good day today, here, the sun is out, it's cold, but it's good. :)
