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16 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
WOOHOO!!!!!!

Josie, I have to say it, because not enough do: You look pretty darn good too :) Thank you for all the help and enthusiasm you give! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]12/16/2004 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1007 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 32,224 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �6,042.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 138 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 31 [B]Seconds:[/B] 59
16 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Asks any Ex

[quote] When Grandma completed something she rewarded herself with a smoke. The completion of a task is one of her triggers. [/quote] Exactly, and it is usually helpful to identify what caused a trigger, so that it is easy to knock it down quickly the next time it happens. That is what grandma is doing and I wanted to reassure her that by doing this she wasn't "dwelling" (as long as she didn't spend too long thinking about it, not every trigger is easy to explain) I quite agree that dwelling or worrying about craves and triggers is very counter-productive. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]12/16/2004 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1008 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 32,256 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �6,048.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 138 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 33 [B]Seconds:[/B] 31
16 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thursday Night Bonfire!!!

Potato Salad, did someone say Potato Salad??????? :8|: I don't have anything to throw on the fire right now apart from my unsmoked cigs. I can bring some nice Aussie red wine and some good English Applewood smoked cheddar cheese, so please may I come? [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]12/16/2004 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1008 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 32,256 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �6,048.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 138 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 5 [B]Seconds:[/B] 44
15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
THANK YOU

Congratulations in making it through last night Lil!
 
Now about that 10 day reward...? Seriously, do not neglect the rewards side of quitting, not if you want to get your brain chemistry back to normal as quickly as possible. The science is out there, as well as the testimonials of millions of succesful quitters. Nicotine used to occupy your dopamine receptors, therefore your body produced less dopamine, now you need to boost it up again, the simplest way is by rewarding yourself often.
 
A few natural things that help with boosting dopamine - broad beans (fava beans in US) contain L-dopa. Also foods high in Tyramine will probably help too - aged cheeses and meats (like cured ham) red wine, in moderation  soy sauce, chocolate, also in moderation
 
As to your severe niceness symptoms, sorry, nothing we can do about that, one of the side effects of this web site I'm afraid!
 
Keep up the good work, you've done hell week, you are half way through heck week (when craves aren't continuous, but come out of nowhere when they hit) next week is blah week when you'll probably feel very flat and a bit miserable (you might be verging on that now, these 'weeks' aren't exact for everyone) then after that most people have a period of temptation, where the worst seems to be over and they wonder if they couldn't have "just one" - the answer is that they can't, otherwise they'll be back to square one again!

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1413
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 45,216
Amount Saved: �8,478.00
Life Gained:
Days: 196 Hrs: 22 Mins: 51 Seconds: 9

15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Anyone have a hammock?

Can't do a hammock I'm afraid, but will the big swing in my avatar do?

Like Karren, I'm a bit late as it was a long trip over, but I've brought some nice chilled white wine.  :8|:


My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1414
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 45,248
Amount Saved: �8,484.00
Life Gained:
Days: 197 Hrs: 0 Mins: 37 Seconds: 26

15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Four Years for Lolly!

What a wonderful milestone!  It's been an amazing four years.
 
 You have been a help and inspiration to so many along the way.
 
I know that you'll win your current fight with just the same spirit and determination that you brought to your quit.
 
I hope you manage to have a celebration Lolly, I also hope that G. aka 'Lollypop' has organised you an amazing reward.
 
Much love and congratulations,
 
Ros  

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1440
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 46,080
Amount Saved: �8,640.00
Life Gained:
Days: 200 Hrs: 14 Mins: 46 Seconds: 44

15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Four Years for Lolly!

Ooops!!! In my rush to post this morning (in still slightly asleep mode) I didn't spot Lolly's post further down the page.
 
Please don't reply to this one!
 
Reply to Lolly's thread titled "4 Year Old Quit Tomorrow!"
 
I'll repost my message on the proper thread.
 
Can the moderators please delete or close this thread please?

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1440
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 46,080
Amount Saved: �8,640.00
Life Gained:
Days: 200 Hrs: 15 Mins: 9 Seconds: 28

15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
4 Year Old Quit Tomorrow!

Aargh, Gremlins!  I'd asked for the new thread I started to be deleted, instead the post I'd made on this thread disappeared.  So I'll post here again:
 
Dear Lolly,
 
What a wonderful milestone!  It's been an amazing four years.
 
 You have been a help and inspiration to so many along the way.
 
I know that you'll win your current fight with just the same spirit and determination that you brought to your quit.
 
I hope you manage to have a celebration Lolly, I also hope that G. aka 'Lollypop' has organised you an amazing reward.
 
Much love and congratulations,
 
Ros  

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1441
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 46,112
Amount Saved: �8,646.00
Life Gained:
Days: 200 Hrs: 18 Mins: 27 Seconds: 44

15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Lolly-update on four

Thinking of you today Lolly, hope the radiotherapy goes well.
My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1450
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 46,400
Amount Saved: �8,700.00
Life Gained:
Days: 201 Hrs: 23 Mins: 45 Seconds: 54

15 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Weekend Promise!

Hi Lady,
 
I started one of these threads last weekend, but I don't think they've been done regularly for a while. Like you, I found the weekend promise a great motivator early on in my quit. Thanks for starting this one.  
 
I'm off to a party tonight, but I promise that I won't be smoking in Sussex this weekend!

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/16/2004
Smoke-Free Days: 1451
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 46,432
Amount Saved: �8,706.00
Life Gained:
Days: 202 Hrs: 3 Mins: 31 Seconds: 0