Diva news...
Well just got back. Had a long walk with mom and then had a nice supper out with a friend. It felt really great to be out and chat. I had a good time! Now I am gonna relax and watch something good on tv. First though I figure I will finish up my reply lol. So where was I, oh yes:
Rose,
I doubt I can get my hubby to go to a support group. Me I don'T know if there is one but between this center, my friends, my mom and my therapist, for now I feel covered. As for the couple's therapist, she is giving us a good prices which means we can most likely go every week or at worse every two weeks. So that is good! But I am hoping hubby will ask for help from his doc. That would be a start!
Anyway, thanks for the reply and for caring it means a lot to me!!
Goofy,
Thanks. Yes on day at a time and this too shall pass is right! Thanks for understanding how I felt when the doc said that. I am glad I am not the only one who feels that way! And yeah, if I do decide to take them it will be one day at a time and only as long as I feel comfortable with! I am still not sure I want to try it, the whole possible allergy thing kinda scares the heck out of me lol. But hey, I have not yet made a decision but I will and I will let you know when I do!
Thanks for caring, it means a lot!
Hey Mom of 3,
Glad to have you back! missed you and was wondering about you two. But I totally understand and respect why you had to take a break from it al and am hoping it helped you 
. Thank you for the kind words, feel like blushing!
Perseverance, high roads, honesty: high praise, thank you 
. Means a lot to me!
As for my in-laws, thanks. I think I have made my peace with it though. As you have said, they have their own issues to deal with, now I am at peace with it all. Plus my hubby is ok with me only going once in a blue moon. I don't get much pressure from him, he gets it so that is good. As for them being dysfonctional, maybe it is true but I don't know and I figure it is not my problem lol! That might sound heartless but as I said, I kinda made my peace with it and decided those who like me fine and those who don't fine. I am nice to all of them when I see them but I only see them when I feel up to it and that is good enough for me!
As for my hubby's gaming, well it started way before me. It got worse with the years but I know I am not the root of it lol. As for his issues, well yes, he has them and hey are deep rooted lol. But isn't that true of just about anybody? I just hope he does something to help himself. He really is a wonderful man and I hope he gets help so he can be happy. He deserves it, I just wish he could see that!
As for the meds, you are right. I can decide to go back on them to help myself and get off once I am better. And they idea of taking meds short-term (I like the anti-biotic metaphor btw, helps me get some perspective, thanks) is easier for me then long-term. As for the allergic reaction, the problem is I ha
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