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13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Struggling

hey...
i feel you... i feel good one day and poop the next...
 
Lolly's article basically sums up my ride...but i do agree with skates that i also this round, when i have that random crave- whoa where did that come from- i stop look see what did it...sometimes, i even tell someone (it sounds odd saying it aloud my bf looks at me like i am nutty...dang non smoker...)
Today even, I took a whiff of my perfume that i used to drown myself in to make people think i didn't smoke...it made me want to run out and smoke...so i stopped realized that thought...put down the perfume (didn't dwell) and moved on to whatever else i was doing... i realized and then i stopped.  You can do this you have made it this far- all these others did it...it's your turn. (and way to go post and get the support help that you need)
PS... without a bump... i had a smoke on day 45...i kept my stats cause i kept going but still even now, i regret it and feel awful- and yes even after 1 i had the three day withdrawls...don't- you get nothing from it but having to look myself in the eye and say oh you have 90 days minus that one...


My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 90
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,250
Amount Saved: $1,125.00
Life Gained:
Days: 7 Hrs: 0 Mins: 32 Seconds: 33

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
still going - the big 90 feels good

i got the 90 days on sat i get my 3mths... and i have never been happier- ok it's a lie, i am feeling ruff and struggling-
 
but...i am doing this... i have never ever- since 16...yeah 16 years ago...gone this long.  i have celebrated b-days with smokers, i have worked all day with smokers on the streets (thanks gross nyc)...i have survived a fashion week, convinced my assistant to quit cause i did it... i have survived my roommate smoking every night outside my window- i have fought with her-fought w my mother, had crap days at work, wanted to murder my barking chihuahuas (so not true)
 
But at 3mths... it's starting to really sink in...when i get a crave, i see it...when i get mad, get mad at the actual anger not that i can't have a smoke...i am actually 10 times less stressed- who knew...i actually feel lazy and i am trying to fix that hahaha!
 
i am madly in love with my stats- glad i didn't start over after my 1 accident...
i am also madly insanely in love with my freedom...i am leaving tomorrow for my sisters- no more flight hot box before and after the plane...no more sneaking around my sister (1 year quit) plans to go running get mai/pedi's, bachlorette party without gross smokes...sitting poolside- ahhhhh~ sorry hahaha... i could go on and on...but i just need to say that even with the struggle every heavy broken, tripped step is worth everything!!!


My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 90
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,250
Amount Saved: $1,125.00
Life Gained:
Days: 7 Hrs: 0 Mins: 33 Seconds: 25

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Junkie Thinking

this was the best i printed it out.... i had it in my desk drawer
My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 91
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,275
Amount Saved: $1,137.50
Life Gained:
Days: 7 Hrs: 3 Mins: 25 Seconds: 47

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I Don?t Get It?

hey S.R.
bit late getting in here... but i wanted to point out that i know how you feel want to know how i got over the 3mth hump...
 
a post got bumped about the 12-17 week time period and how that time period is when people fail...it is when the other habits start to kick in when you start recovering from the bad habits,...i will re bump if i find it it says so much more than i could repeat... it was so good for me to hear since i felt like you felt like argh this is goin to be like this forever...knowledge is power and after reading the post i felt that at least i knew what to expect... i knew that it is almost scientifically proven that it's going to be hard right now...i just got done finding a new apt for myself in Manhattan (anyone remember my post about roommate hating me for not being her smoke buddy anymore) i was dying to smoke the entire time...stress, excitement, reward...it popped into my head every 5 mins, then it popped out...cause i knew- it's just a thought, it isn't reality...beating your brain will allow you to start down the hill...to the road to recovery
hang in there... it feel good when you beat it...


My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 113
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,825
Amount Saved: $1,412.50
Life Gained:
Days: 8 Hrs: 19 Mins: 52 Seconds: 33

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Annoyed!

lance... my roommate smoke... i freaking hate it!!!  we have a back yard and guess who's oprn windows are in the back yard yep mine...i am moving in 2 weeks...she wanted us to stay roommate...i gave myself the biggest reward ever...i signed a lease by myself...not everyone could do that...but you could defn find non smokers to live with...i swear, i hate hanging out with smokers now (most of my ex friends) and i love telling then they stink hahaha

My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 113
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,825
Amount Saved: $1,412.50
Life Gained:
Days: 8 Hrs: 19 Mins: 54 Seconds: 0

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Yes it is me!

lolly.... were you the one who posted about the 12-17 week period and why that was a relapse time period???trying to help someone and wanted to re bump  it...it took my 80 days into 100...

My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 113
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,825
Amount Saved: $1,412.50
Life Gained:
Days: 8 Hrs: 19 Mins: 54 Seconds: 7

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I Don?t Get It?

yeah lolly found this....
 
I found this article on relapsing faster than I thought.  I've no idea where it came from but it does mention 17 weeks.  Hope this helps you.   Lolly.  

Hi.  We all know about the first week and the next one, but after that, many people expect that it's all over.  Well it just isn't.  Nicotine metabolites can hang around for three weeks in your system, for instance, and those toxic additives in cigarettes have been affecting your body too.

The entire body goes through major changes. It's in serious recovery mode.  In every single cell, from your lungs, your brain, your skin, to every part of you, everything is affected when you stop feeding it nicotine and its accompanying toxins.  That requires a lot of cellular energy, a whole lot of adjustment.  It's no wonder people are tired or feel spacey at certain moments.  Those recovery changes do not end for a while.  They are quite intensive in the beginning.  

The brain undergoes physical and neurological changes too.  Things start to even out or dampen at around 17 weeks, though the changes and the recovery still keep happening in a less obvious and perceptible way, except perhaps for a few cluster days every month.  

Now while it's true that some people feel a whole lot better after the second month, many don't think they have it under control until the fourth month, though they have had increasingly good moments in between.  
This does not mean that there can't be tough moments in the months that follow, but by the end of the fourth, if your skills have been developed, you have enough time in, determination and confidence to get through those moments.

If people know that they can feel depressed around 10 weeks and have lots of junkie thinking in the third month (inability to feel pleasure while the neurotransmitters are "realigning" so the question comes up "Is it all worth it?" (Along with a bargaining stage where they toy with the notion of having "just one", they will be better prepared to handle the quit.) Thus it's wise to have a reward plan.

Many of the letters I get about relapsing occur around weeks 12-16.  They inevitably say "I thought I could have just one" to get through a stressful moment, or test the quit, or "I expected it to be all over by now."  
My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 114
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,850
Amount Saved: $1,425.00
Life Gained:
Days: 8 Hrs: 22 Mins: 6 Seconds: 45

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
your $13.00 thoughts

Just wanted to know... can i raise my $ saved to reflect that my still smoking friend informed me and i saw it today...13.00 (14.00 at one place) for 1 pack of cigs...you know nyc...sometime i do love you...
 
now start cracking down on the illegal 7.00 cigs and i will start breathing better.....
 
i mean seriously ...13.00!!!  i just rented an apartment (yes nyc it's small) for that amount for the 100 days i have been quit...
holy smokers!!!

My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 116
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,900
Amount Saved: $1,450.00
Life Gained:
Days: 9 Hrs: 2 Mins: 31 Seconds: 25

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Kaiser has 700 days

well duh... this is a give...
 
no seriously congrats!!!!!  i like 400, feels sunny...


My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 116
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,900
Amount Saved: $1,450.00
Life Gained:
Days: 9 Hrs: 2 Mins: 31 Seconds: 29

13 years ago 0 98 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Kaiser has 700 days

woops ment 700. i was thinking about tabbyh...400 to many amazing number here... :)

My Mileage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2010
Smoke-Free Days: 116
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,900
Amount Saved: $1,450.00
Life Gained:
Days: 9 Hrs: 2 Mins: 31 Seconds: 34