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2024-10-31 6:49 AM

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Feels like hell week all over!!

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2024-10-30 9:38 AM

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Roller Coaster Withdrawal

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2024-10-14 12:28 PM

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Smile....and don't shoot the messenger

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2024-09-27 3:17 PM

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Hugs.

I think you are right, do you think you can do it or is it too ingrained. Some core beliefs are pretty tough. How do you think a person would do this.

Davit.
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You win only if you aren't afraid to lose.
- Rocky Aoki

I suppose if I could drop the "win-lose" view of the world I'd be better off
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Have I been on this site so long that the quotes are repeating themselves. A few others seem familliar. Not that it matters, just an observation.

Davit.
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HI:  This quote reminds me more about how we wish for things and how it may be right there at your fingertips but you saboutage it because a) you say you are unable to change your ways or thinking, or b) you're unwilling to work for it.
 
As usual, no one can do it for you, you have to do it for yourself.
 
Sunny
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Quote of the Day:
A wish is a desire without an attempt.
- Farmer Digest

I would imagine a farm digest is a credible source for understanding the difference between a wish and desire, after the way I feel with the small garden I have to cultivate compared to providers, who are the providers of our daily food using massive tracts of land grappling with nature daily.
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I think this is a very good quote. I used to think my yesterdays were worthless until I realized the value of the lessons I needed to learn. Now, I focus on the positives from my yestedays and disallow the negatives to rule my today and tomorrows. Therefore, I feel I have unlimited potential, and I no longer find it unbearably frightening to be empowered.
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We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.
- Chretien Malesherbes

So simple and true
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Maybe to rephrase that, I'd avoid comparing myself to others
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Even if you compare yourself to your past?
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If you set a goal for yourself and are able to achieve it, you have won your race. Your goal can be to come in first, to improve your performance, or just to finish the race -- it's up to you.
- Dave Scott

You always win when you compare yourself to yourself

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