Hey Kayla,
Kids could have come with an instruction manual, huh? :mad:
Kayla, you're the Mom and you know you have to be consistent with the guidelines that you've set down. Your daughter lost your trust, she has to prove herself trustworthy. (I'm speaking from experience too!!) If you decide it's okay to give your daughter an inch, then stick to that. Don't give in to the mile until YOU believe your daughter has earned that level of trust. Again, you're the Mom and your boyfriend doesn't have a say. IMO
You are going through some serious stress right now and you have to find other ways, other than smoking, to deal with that stress. Right now, that demon is trying to use that stress to con you into smoking. Chew him out by saying things like, "Ahh, bite me!!" Or worse if need be!! But fuss at him so you can release some of the tension you're feeling right now.
If I'm remembering right, you've been sick with strep so you're worn out, the stress you're under is sooo tiring, and fighting the craves can be down right exhausting. Keep posting, get through this day, and make sure you pamper yourself big time. You deserve it!!
You NEED and DESERVE a HUGE reward for those 40 FANTASTIC DAYS!!! You're doing an awesome job and I'm so proud of you.
Stay Strong,
Tutti
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/18/2007
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 66
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,996
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $236.94
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 7 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 16 [B]Seconds:[/B] 55
