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6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

That totally made my day.

You are so welcome. Makes me happy to know you feel alittle better. 

Let me know how your appointment goes tomorrow. 
6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

Haha oh I will.

Finally someone appreciates my quotes hahaha 
6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

It's okay. You'll be okay.

Allow it to happen.  Continue to focus on driving.  Put on the radio.  You will be fine.  Focus on something else.  You have to practice being calm.  You are practicing being nervous.  Stop falling in the trap of trying to understand.  You cannot understand.  The amydala does not adhere to logic.  It will not listen to you because in a survival situation - you need it to respond quickly without your awareness.  Has this happened to you that you react before you even know what it is?  Like my brother hates spiders.  I would pretend there is a spider and he runs before he even sees it.  That is your amydala.  It is razor sharp designed to save your life.  You cannot talk to it before in a dangerous situation, seconds may cost you your life. It just acts.  It doesnt care that you feel horrible.  So trying to understand it - by asking way, will only make you frustrated because you are talking to something that does not speak or understanding talking.  So Amet, you really need accept that it is happening and practice calmness, vs. wanting to know why it is happening and practice nervousness.     

Can you think of some ways that you can do to practice calmness? 

 


6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

This might help -


The Role of Interoceptive Exposure in Treating Fear of Bodily Sensations

Interoceptive exposure means exposure to bodily sensations. Such exposure is an essential element in the process of gaining a more accurate, or realistic, assessment of the danger they pose. By eliciting fearful body sensations, identifying maladaptive thoughts and beliefs associated with these sensations, and sustaining the feared sensations without avoidance or distraction, a shift can come about whereby these sensations are no longer seen as a threat.

One caveat. Interoceptive exposure exercises are teaching tools for learning more about one’s symptoms of panic. While not dangerous, they will deliberately induce moderate levels of discomfort and as such, it might be normal to want to avoid such uncomfortable sensations in the short-term. However, in the long-term avoidance of uncomfortable sensations only reinforces the very panic one dreads.

Another caveat. Before attempting exposure-based exercises, one should be in generally good health. You may want to check with your physician before attempting interoceptive exposure, which is designed to be uncomfortable but not painful.  For example, persons with cardiac conditions, epilepsy or seizures,  lung problems or asthma, neck or back conditions, or other physical problems may inadvertently exacerbate, rather than remedy, physical symptoms.  

The kinds of interoceptive activities one engages in depends on one’s physical symptoms. For persons with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), caffeine might be administered to make thoughts race and induce worry about loss of control. Individuals with social anxiety (or social phobia) might deliberately induce sweating before giving a speech.  

The aim of interoceptive exposure is to replicate actual symptoms experienced during an anxiety or panic attack and in the process desensitize one’s conditioned response that the physical sensations will cause an attack to occur. The end result is that uncomfortable physical symptoms are seen as just that, uncomfortable, rather than a sign of impending doom or disaster.  

Consider how the physical symptoms associated with running five miles on a treadmill might mimic the same symptoms associated with a panic attack. Whereas the panic prone person might make this connection and attribute what they are experiencing as a panic attack, another person may correctly attribute what they’re experiencing as a “normal response” to working out. In the case of running five miles, both participants are experiencing the same symptoms but the anxiety or panic sufferer is adding on negative or catastrophic meaning to their experience.

The good news… interoceptive exposure is part of an arsenal of effective techniques for reducing and, eventually, gaining mastery over anxiety and panic. With the guidance and support of a mental health professional trained in evidence-based treatment of anxiety disorders, you can acquire skills that will enable you to gain mastery over and freedom from whatever is holding you back from living with joy, purpose and meaning.

6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

Me too.

I do the same. I keep distracting myself when I feel like im not here by watching tv. Like today I delayed watching tv and ive been so anxious all day. So I hear you sista. Though the focus is different (yours is breathing mine is the unreality) they are both bodily symptoms that is distressing. Im trying exposure but im just so scared and then those stupid what if thoughts that what if it doesnr get better, what if its permanent, what if i peakes in my recovery. Gawd. 
6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

*what if I peaked in my recovery in that it wont get better than this 


6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

I hate that one! I wish I could punch it! Every single time I have that what if thought baaaam - panic. It freaks me out cuz im like I cant live like this. This is too much. But see ... its that anxious mind talking. Though I am totally dancing to its music like a puppet.
6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

Omg. I wishhh - 

Hows your night been? Yoga tonight
6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

Yah!! I have the what if its forever too!! God its so predictable that its funny but then when youre going through it, you dont see the humour at all but terror lol

6 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Cipralex and feeling sad

Hey Amet!

How was the mood disorder clinic today