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17 years ago 0 10 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sal, my quit date is tomorrow but I work in Labor and Delivery and I am here to tell you to quit. I have had 4 children, one died of sids, which could be related to my smoking so I have had to live with that everyday of my life. I watch women come in that smoke and their babies are usually small, they struggle for breathe, they go through withdrawals just like we do. There can be so many other complications. I am not saying this to scare you or maybe I am. I thought I had a tumor in my lung and that has scared me to death. I didn't think it was going to happen to me. We can do this together. Just quit and come here and post. you can do it for you and your baby. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/3/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 0 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
17 years ago 0 2 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Im Sal, I have the best news - Im pregnant! and the worst news - Im a smoker... I am so happy to be having this baby and want the best of health for me and ecspecially my unborn child. I have been onto so many websites looking to see if there are other people in the same situation but it seems like such a taboo subject, as what mother in their right mind would continue smoking? Or I am alone in this and should be locked up and be published in the Guiness Book of Records? I thought I could do it and cut down to 1 and a half cigarettes a day (I smoke tobacco) but I have been a little stressed out in the past week, which has led me to light up with only little hesitation, its like I am missing a piece of my brain (the one which should click that I cannot possibly light up) but I do. I have tried to give up smoking in the past with no success at all. I have seen the effects of smoking on unborn children - so why is it so hard? I know with support I can change this and I would be gratefull for any advise. Thanks for listening. Salx
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17 years ago 0 2 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thank you to everyone - Lady, Your right what more reason do I need. Last night I could not sleep as upset I am not looking after my unborn and its time I stop making excuses for myself. Great milage - you must be proud. Tessa, Thank you for the referral which I will jump onto after I have posted this. I will continue to come to this site though as I cant believe the kind responses I have received and it has given me a great boost to quit now. Well done on quitting yourself. Phil, First of all congratulations on your milage - well done. I will not make anyone feel like that, you have my word. Dutch Fini, Thank you I will think what is more important when I feel like I am loosing it. Congratulations on your milage too. Josie, I will post as often as I can and I have prepared to give up tomorrow. Aunt Deb, I will read carzoo1983 post, thank you for suggesting it.Well done on your milage - over a month thats great! Platinum Butterfly, Congrats on quitting you are doing well, thanks for your faith it means a lot. Sunshine, It is great to know I have your support in quitting. I know I will have a heap of awful days ahead of me, but it will all be worth it! Over a year without a smoke well done! Monica, 2 days since your quit date, how are you doing? I am sorry about your baby, but thank you for telling me as it has made me more determined to quit. My quit date is tomorrow so it would be great to do this together.
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17 years ago 0 14 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Well, I feel kind of silly, I just read what your post was and didn't read anymore,I immediately just thought I should reply,I think its fantastic that you have set a quit date! I know you can do this,being a mom is the most awesome god given gift,and what better way to accept that gift,then being smoke free.I'm really glad your going to quit,I was panicking,I promise I will read the whole post before I start freaking out from now on...Good job! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/29/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 169 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $24 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 25 [B]Seconds:[/B] 47
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17 years ago 0 14 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey Sal, You and I are definetly in the same boat. I just recently quit, and I'm seven months pregnant.If you can find the post that I put on here titled "In time of need" it explains my story,of the loss of my daughter,due to smoking.Its horrible,absolutly devastating.You don't want to live with that guilt.What you need to do, is set a date "make a plan" Remember if your going on a road trip, you don't just drive to the end of your driveway and decide to go,because you'll be lost forever,you need a plan..a map persay.most people if going on a road trip to somewhere they've never been, would either buy a map,or map quest it.So lets say your quit date,and this website are your map.Think about your unborn child.I don' know how far along you are,but if you can feel the kicks,then this will be as easy as breathing.I don't think there is such a thing as the bad first day,or even hell week.It just takes a certain mentality to realize,"Hey,I don't really "need" this cigarette" Depending on how long you've smoked,it may be highly habitual,like after eating..an so on,you'll find lots of advice for "what else to do" on this site. There shouldn't be any question whether you should quit or not,it should be when your going to quit.So I think your first step would definetly be to set a quit date.Then make sure you do the smokers journal,that will tell you to write how many cigarettes your smoking,do this 3 days before your quit date,and follow the guidelines religiously,remember Sal its not just you anymore. You are now a parent,and you MUST do everything in your power and everything in youe being to protect your baby.Let us know how everything is going and when your quit date is. Love,Marla [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/29/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 168 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $24 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 18 [B]Seconds:[/B] 39
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17 years ago 0 13 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Sal! - Congratulations on your pregnancy - that's so exciting! And good for you for realizing that now is the time for you to quit smoking so as to ensure health for your baby AND you. There is another pregnant woman who started a thread a couple of days ago - it is in this same forum (Introduce Yourself) but on the 2nd page. It is titled "In time of need" - I think that maybe you should read it. Casey, one of the Support Specialists on this site informed her of another site called www.pregnets.com which is designed for pregnancy and stop-smoking support. I think the site we're on is so wonderful and I was really impressed to find out that they had another site specifically for pregnant women - so cool. So, not only can you visit this site for tons of support but you can visit the other site too and have even more support. I really wish you all the best in your quit. You're not missing a piece of your brain, you just have an addiction - and happily, it's an addiction that you can not only fight, BUT YOU CAN BEAT. Come back for as much support as you need. You will be in my thoughts. Congratulations again on your pregnancy!! Tessa [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/22/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 10 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 100 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $30 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 20 [B]Seconds:[/B] 41
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17 years ago 0 135 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Aunt Deb, that is great advice for her to read carzoos story..Sal, congratulations you can do this.. I won't preach b/c I smoked with both my pregnancys BUT I know now that I was VERY lucky I had 2 healthy kids, some people arent so lucky.. I can say for sure that quitting is the best thing I have done for myself ever.. you can do this [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/9/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 23 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 353 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $172.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 9
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Hi Sal and welcome, Want some motivation...read carzoo1983 She's pregnant too...and has quite a story that has all of "us" praying for her. Good luck Sweetie..we know you can do this too!!! auntdeb [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/1/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 31 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,575 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $147.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 4 [B]Hrs:[/B] 8 [B]Mins:[/B] 5 [B]Seconds:[/B] 13
17 years ago 0 2 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi SaL: I can't say that i smoked while I was pregnant, but I did start not that long after my 3 children were born. They grew up in a home where both parents and 3 out of 4 grandparents smoked. Guess what 2 out of 3 not only smoke, they all have respiratory problems eg. ashtma, bronchitis. I feel terrible that I have contributed to my childrens health problems. So you don't get off so easy stopping just because your pregnant. If you get what I'm saying. Good luck to you. YOU CAN DO IT GOD BLESS [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/5/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 92 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 927 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $345 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 12 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 7 [B]Seconds:[/B] 38
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Sal You have the best reason in the world to quit. Last night I saw a friend who has been living in Cyprus for a couple of years.I didnt even remember her smoking before. Anyway she is 7 months pregnant and sat there with a cigarette in her hands !!!!!!!!! She smoked several,I felt AWFUL couldnt say anything not my business.She didnt even notice that I had stopped!1 PLEASE DONT MAKE SOMEONE FEEL AS BAD AS I DID LAST NIGHT!! I wont preach just tell me you wont please! Phil x [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/8/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 177 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,720 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �929.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 35 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 15 [B]Seconds:[/B] 27

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