My husbands difficulty is that he wants more. I know this can be a typical male attribute, but as his wife I feel like I should be fulfilling his needs. Our marriage is very young, only 1.5 years and no children. To answer the question "what do I want?" I ultimately want to be happy, as for intimacy I want to have sex, I just feel like I'm not interested or motivated. Or some days I get these thoughts/feelings that sex is disgusting and gross. I don't know where these thoughts come from, I don't believe them. I suppose I need a sex therapist to help me figure out that one. I suppose my depression in general causes friction. Sometimes I'm too tired to cook dinner/clean the house. I'm often unmotivated to get off the couch and I think that bothers him. He loves me and wants to be supportive but my irrational outbursts often attack him and I know that hurts him. I'm sure there are more, I don't even know where to start with helping fix this. I am going to bring him to my next doctors visit, in hopes she can explain to him why I'm so crazy. And maybe we can go to couples therapy, I don't think our marriage is falling apart or anything, but I think that if we went to therapy together it could help.
