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2024-10-31 6:49 AM

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Feels like hell week all over!!

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2024-10-14 12:28 PM

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Smile....and don't shoot the messenger

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Update... Went to a follow up gastro apt today. I am starting on some new extra meds tomorrow. One is a steroid/immune suppressant type drug which may effect my mood i.e. anxiety/depression/excitability/aggression so I am little worried about that but it is what it is and knowing this ahead of time should help me deal with these emotions if they arise. That's what I thinking. I am hoping the cbt that I learned here should help me deal all that. The goal is to get my UC/IBD into remission and keep it there. So if the meds work it will be worth it and hopefully I can start enjoying life again. If they don't work than there are other treatments that we can try to get me there. So there is still hope and I have not given up quite yet...Well that's all for now...Till next time ...Red..
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Davit, good to hear from you and good luck with your growing this year. Hugs, I also had trouble posting until today. Good to see the site working again. As for me I am resting at home and doing a little quilting again. Tomorrow morning is follow up with the gastro doc and maybe a new med since I am not in remission yet. If all goes well I am hoping to get out and about more again. Take Care Everyone! Enjoy the day! Till next time... Red...
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Something happended to me in February, and I'm just left with this lethargy. Has anybody had trouble using the website? I tried responding but kept getting an error message.
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Hi everyone.

I hope you all had a nice Easter. I've been very busy. I have a lot to do since I was pretty sick last year and didn't get much done, so this year has been a lot of cleaning and putting stuff away. Cleaning and spreading peat moss in flower beds. Weeds got a good run last year. And now it is time to start plants. Days are long often right till it is dark. Spring came too early. Not making lists since I don't like them. I do try to get two or three things done every day, anymore is a bonus. Any less is just life.

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Davit, I didn't notice this, until I reviewed it today. The football "pocket" is a safe place, like the "zone" for others, when their performance is best or "optimized". I feel safe at graveside too, Red, BTW. I wonder where others feel safe since it matters. In my car, in the garage, is one place, at some religious gatherings(not the church, which is not fragrance-free, but only some of them),
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Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery is a Safe Harbor for me. A place for me to be, where I feel safe, secure and belong. Reunited with my husband on this Easter holiday or just about any day. This is my Safe Harbor, my shelter from the storm....Red...
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David! My friend I haven't spoke to you in a long long time and do miss you and our talks. How are your roses doing this year? and most of all how have you been? I hope all is well with you and wish you the best as always...Your forever friend....Red:)))
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Bumping up this thread today.... I have to say that lately, hanging out in the house is my favorite Safe Harbor and spoken like a the true recluse that I am it was very easy for me to fall right back into it. I've been in my comfort zone for months now and am finding that its very hard to leave again...Red...
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Bumping up this thread today. Sitting in peace and quiet of the early morning and watching the sun come up.
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It would take me way more than 30% of the water to vacuum the gravel in my 10 gal tank.  Don't know if it was b/c I had a couple of goldfish (which are pigs) or what.  Anyway....it would take me a while.  I had a contraption that hooked up to the faucet in my kitchen sink that would vacuum the water right into the sink so I didn't have to lift anything.  I could then reverse it and pump clean water back into the tank.  I've thought of getting it going again....or trying something different (like a turtle...but I've been told they're very smelly).  Who knows.

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