Hi Kaitie!!!
First let me explain my avatar :) This made my night. I have two Chihuahuas, Fawn and Chiquita, and they were both sleeping under the blanket on the couch. Fawn's head is on the left side and Chiquita's back side is on the other end. So, it's looks like they are one dog! My husband's favorite dog is the Dachshund, so I showed him the picture and said, "It looks like you finally got your Dachshund!" How funny is that :)
I'm so glad you like my knitted dragons, I wish I could knit one for you and mail it to you somehow :) If you do knit, the dragon pattern is in the book, "Teeny-Tiny Mochimochi" by Anna Hrachovec. I know Amazon has a U.K. web bookstore, maybe they have an Australia book store? In the book my dragon is called a dinosaur and they have a lot of other cute projects.
Finally, to answer your question...Yes! I have worked out everything I've needed to and I have peace of mind and I'm very happy. Happier than I can ever remember :) I still have to manage anxiety and will, throughout my life, because life isn't perfect, but as long as I practice the coping skills and relaxation techniques learned here (even just replacing daily negative thoughts with positive ones) it's keeps me from having a setback or the setback is extremely shortened. I also pray and meditate in the morning and I find this enables me to handle any unexpected stresses of the day. Like the other day, Chiquita's kneecap slipped out of place. It's called Patella Luxation. I've had Chihuahuas for 28 years and two of my dogs had to have surgery to repair it. So, I had to go to the Vet's office during rush hour traffic and I hit every red light in bumper to bumper traffic. If you had seen my posts, when I first joined, this situation would have given me a panic attack. So, I purposefully, relaxed my body (which sends a signal to my brain that all is well) and I breathed from my diaphragm. And, I was 100% fine! I did have a build up of stress, recently, and the best thing I can do is just cry, to get it out, to keep anxiety from becoming worse. I also am 50 and I'm going through menopause, so the drop in estrogen and hormonal issues are sometimes not fun and can actually cause anxiety. So, I just use my tools to get through and then something funny will happen, like my dogs on the couch avatar, and I'm back to normal. I also tell myself this hormone thing, or just anxiety over a situation, is just temporary and it won't last forever and it doesn't. So, there is relief in that knowledge even when going through a stressful time or unexpected emergency. Once in awhile, something will agitate me and I have to become a detective and figure it out. Like the abandonment dragon. And, fortunately, I have a friend who is good at helping me identify dragons. So, when things crop up, I deal with them as they come. I'm not sure if I have any other dragons hiding out there, but if they reveal themselves, I will surely name them, knit them, and put them in my dragon tank :) :) :) I love everyone here and miss everyone. It's hard for me to stay away from the site. But, I check on you all, at different times and will add my two cents if someone posts a question for me. It's a beautiful sunny day today, but still cold. It's supposed to be spring, but old man winter won't give up his season for now. But, he doesn't realize he's only temporary too. The next thing you know, we'll all be complaining about how hot it is :) Have a great weekend everybody!
Shari the Dragon Slayer (feel free to join me and slay your dragons :) P.S. I found out that most people have the Not Good Enough dragon and the Unworthy dragon. So, some dragons (neg. core beliefs) seem to be universal. I just thought that was interesting.