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As you probably noticed there are those who are comfortable with their behaviour and it is so ingrained that they can't change even though they want to. Then some don't want to because it is all they have. Sad the loss of potential this causes.

Davit.
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People don't change their behavior unless it makes a difference for them to do so.
- Fran Tarkenton


Do we wish to make a difference?
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The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat.
- Napoleon
"Aim high" seems to be the suggestion.
 
 
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The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can envision the fact that you can do something, you can do it, as long as you really believe 100 percent.
- Arnold Schwarzenegger


Am I believing 100%?
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Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.
- Denis Waitley

Failure, as a word, could be substituted with the word "detour", softening it's impact
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It is a paradoxical but profoundly true and important principle of life that the most likely way to reach a goal is to be aiming not at that goal itself but at some more ambitious goal beyond it.
- Arnold Toynbee


I suppose he meant that we have to account for the obstacles we might encounter.  Maybe also, he is stating that we short-change ourselves.   Often I see people and think how much more they could be.  They should be thinking that I could similarly be doing so much better.
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Failure is a detour, not a dead-end street.
- Zig Ziglar


 
CBT has been a GPS for success
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Put yourself in a state of mind where you say to yourself, "Here is an opportunity for me to celebrate like never before, my own power, my own ability to get myself to do whatever is necessary."
- Anthony Robbins

He's head and shoulders many inspirational speakers...and I don't mean just because he's tall
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Nothing in life is so hard that you can't make it easier by the way you take it.
- Ellen Glasgow


Taking accountability for our responses is important to me
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The one thing over which you have absolute control is your own thoughts. It is this that puts you in a position to control your own destiny.
- Paul G. Thomas


The choice seems obvious: some control or surrender to an unforgiving world

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