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2024-10-31 6:49 AM

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Feels like hell week all over!!

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Roller Coaster Withdrawal

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2024-10-14 12:28 PM

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Smile....and don't shoot the messenger

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2024-09-27 3:17 PM

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12 years ago 0 1665 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Hugs:  There you are, smile and the world smiles back at ya!  If you think she smiled because you were smiling - even though it was the music - I wonder if you had been listening to the news and frowning if she would have felt the negative wave and maybe wouldn't have smiled.  

Sunny who smiles a lot. :-)
12 years ago 0 2508 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I think these are the best kind..:-) The connections we make when we least expect it...
 
 
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12 years ago 0 6252 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Keep smiling, :-)  Some good things have happened to me when I wasn't looking. Some very good things. :-)

But she might have been smiling at you. Now I'm intrigued.

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12 years ago 0 4027 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I was working out at the gym, and smiled when I was amusing myself listening to some music.  Someone walked into my view and smiled at me, maybe thinking I was smiling at her.  On a bad day, I would have thought it was the big pimple on my nose which makes me look like Rudolph the Red-nosed reindeer.  It occurred to me much later that she might not have been looking at me.
 
As I walked away, I realized years ago that my CBT homework sometimes involvied influencing others and seeing their reaction.
 
I felt better since I connected with someone, although I didn't intend to.

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