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15 years ago 0 538 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello Jdm and Mich,

I have not been on in a while but I did want to drop in and say hello! So hello and welcome!
15 years ago 0 8 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
thank you mich,
 
I'm gonna to try your technique by sitting in a chair and hope that it works. i just have to stay focused cuz my mind gets so easily distracted. Sarah thanks for the advise on deep breathing, but when i do try it i get fraustrated so easily and give up. Maybe its because im not doing it right or maybe i dont focused on what im doing. thanks again ill post up more and see if theres any changes...im glad i found this site and im not alone with this one....thanks ervbody

15 years ago 0 18 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
A technique that I was taught by my psychologist that I find works fairly well (better with minor attacks or the early onset of an attack) is called the grounding technique. Because I am a person who seems to always be anxious about what is going to happen in the future she recommended this technique. What you do is as soon as you feel an anxiety attack coming on or if you start worrying about something that might happen in the future sit down in a chair, or whatever you can sit on, and make sure your hands can touch whatever you are sitting on. Start looking around and out loud, if you are in a place you feel comfortable saying things out loud, start listing the colors of things around you. i.e. if you are sitting in a blue chair say "blue chair" out loud, if there is a green blanket say "green blanket" out loud. List everything out loud as fast as you can and as many times as you want until you don't feel the anxiety coming on anymore. What she said that this exercise does is bring's you back into the now and the moment rather than freaking out about something that could happen to you or someone else in the future. Whether you are anxious about something happening in 30 seconds or 30 years it helps to focus on what is the present. If you are in a public place or a place you don't feel comfortable saying things out loud then just list the things in your head but make sure you stay focused on listing things and try not to get distracted. Anyway just thought I would make this suggestion because I find it does work a lot!!
15 years ago 0 955 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
jdm,
 
Welcome to the boards.
 
It sounds like you are experiencing a very rough time right now. Please let us know what we can do to help you through this.
 
Have you tried deep breathing exercises at all? This would be helpful for those feelings of being tense that you mentioned. There are a number of tips and techniques available through this site that you could also use.
 
Members, any advice of jdm on how to cope through this?
 
 
Sarah, Health Educator
15 years ago 0 8 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
hi mich, thanks for tha reply
 
yes i am  experiencing some sort of thing that you have, but no i didnt see any brutal murder or something like that.
It just happen out of no where. i had this about last year and i didnt know whats goin on with me. I have have this thinking habit about my breathing and im afraid that i might stop breathing or something its scary. I m always thinking about scary thoughts like what if i die in the spot right now and no one would help me, its like im going insane and going crazy. I cant even enjoy my life anymore because of this i dont wanna go out the house im always stuck at home. Then when i have panic attacks i have this numbness all over my body because im holding my breathe i dont know why im holding my breath for my body is so tense. when this happens i knod my head and shake my body its sort of like im twitching my body some sort like that but im concious about it and i can stop it everytime when im not panicking anymore its weird.. i dont know what to do anymore thats why im here looking for answers and how to cope with this problem.. please help...

15 years ago 0 18 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Jdm,
 
Are you experiencing the same sort of thing that I have described or is it something a little bit different? I would be more than willing to talk to you about my experiences and issues that I have. Just want to find out a little bit more about what you are experiencing. Let me know!!
15 years ago 0 8 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
hi all its my first time on this site and im glad to know that im not the only one with this horribble monster. everyday i wake up i have to deal with this anxiety its ruining my life. I cant seem to do anything right anymore im so miserable. I didnt go to work for the whole week, because of this panic and anxiety. I'm hoping that one day ill understand how to accept it. i just need someone to talk with one on one. Can someone please help me with this one is, someone out there with this problem thats willing to talk to me cuz im really scared with this symptoms that im feeling. If someones out there who ever please add me on my msn if its ok. jdm06@live.ca.   thank you... god bless everyone keep on fighting....
15 years ago 0 2 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
 Hi Mich,
      You're definitely not the only one experiencing thinking "Am I going crazy." I've really appreciated reading about your experience and how by your sharing it, you can help me and others to realize that we're not going crazy or insane. Everyday, I pretty much feel like I'm going insane but then I realize that maybe I am ok.
 
15 years ago 0 18 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thank you all for your comments! I am happy to hear that I am not the only one and that I am not alone. I find that it really helps when I get reassurance from people, which I've been told is very common with those of us with GAD. However, I do know that I am going to have to work on reassuring myself and not to become dependent on others to do it for me and I'm working on that. I started working on the 12 step program a couple weeks ago and am going to continue to work through it. I saw a psychologist last year when I first started freaking out about my mental health and she helped me out with coping techniques when I start to feel an anxiety attack coming on which was great. She also told me that most people who think they are going crazy aren't and never will be. I just really struggle with convincing myself that I'm not crazy and I'm not going to turn into the kind of person that would kill or hurt someone one day. I know deep down that I won't but it's very hard to tell my mind that when I start to get anxious about those kinds of things. I just can't help but think that the people that do these things were once normal everyday people so what turned them into murderers? And is there a chance that I will turn into something like that? Or what kinds of people end up in institutions and were they not perfectly normal at some point? Those are the kinds of things that I constantly find myself thinking and worrying about. I know that no one can predict the future but I am so scared of what MIGHT happen. I like to call myself a "what if" person because I am always worrying about the "what if's" in life and its hard not to. I really want to beat this without taking any medication and there are days/weeks/months even when I don't experience much anxiety at all. I just don't want it to be the opposite like I was 3 years ago when I was constantly worrying about my physical health and having panic/anxiety attacks sometimes 5 or 6 times a day.
Anyway any other feedback would be great and thanks  again to everyone who responded it sure helps to know that I am not alone!!
15 years ago 0 180 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
 
Hi Ya Mich:
 
Welcome to the community, here you will find a lot of very caring people who will be your cheering section in both good times and bad.  As for the intrusive scary thoughts, no your not alone on that matter.  I don't watch TV or listen to the news anymore in case there is something that would upset me.  I too had  & still occasionally have these very distressing thoughts and I think to myself what is wrong with you, you must be a bad person.  Heck I can't even watch a cartoon like Bambi, if Bambi gets hurt I can't take it.  I am the kind that if a fly is in our house I will not kill it instead I put it in a container and take it outside.  So I know exactly where you are coming from, what's so disturbing is I would never harm anyone or anything & that's why these thoughts frighten the wits out of me.  I too have thoughts of ending up in a psych ward, but you know what I have bee battling Panic Disorder, Depression and now Generalized Anxiety Disorder all without meds for over 2 years now.  I am now attending college and hopefully will re-enter the work force someday.
 
One thing to keep in mind & it's something just came to me very clearly one day ( I guess it's whats referred to as an aha moment) to me in going to college. I am much more than the disorders, I am capable of so much more.  As for being lightheaded I'm in that club too, the way I explain it to myself is my brain is on overload.  I am taking a relaxation class and there is scientific proof that by breathing diaphragmaticly that more oxygen gets to the brain & we think clearer.  I am making it a practice every night to do progressive muscle relaxation and deep breathing for at least 15 minutes before going to bed & you know what my head does feel clearer.  You might want to give it a try, hey I finally did.

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