Tell me about it! You really develop an emotional connection to the one person that seems to really care and to have some answers to lead you out of this nightmare. I am on cloud 9 when I come home. It's like a high. This sounds really twisted! But how can you not develop a connection when you can tell him more than you tell your husband.
It's like he has become my source of all 'wisdom and knowledge', I listen to everything he says. I even ask him if I should get my kids vaccinated. We talk about what I eat and how much I exercise. I ask him what I should do about my husband.
However, I need to remember that this person is getting paid of money to it and listen to me ramble! It's probably a good thing that I only go once a month because I would get very dependent on him.
I need to envision a future where I can think on my own!