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17 years ago 0 2436 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Trish, I always know when a newbie hasn't spent much time reading posts - take the time to read, and read more. Then with any extra time, read more posts... This is a new day for you - you are just beginning this journey. Read... read... Blessings and Light- Healer [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/5/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 385 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 13,503 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1790.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 50 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 52 [B]Seconds:[/B] 38
17 years ago 0 1040 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Trish, we have to expect that making such a huge change is going to take time. Our smoking encompassed so much of who we were and the way we saw ourselves. This is about some very core stuff... and changing it will definately be a process. One thing is for sure; we're never going to feel the way that smoking made us feel. And for most of us... that's how we define, "normal". Now we have to adjust to a new 'normal'. Something that will become a part of our experience, but for a lot of us... hasn't been for a very long time. 35 years in my case. Think of it this way. It's a lot like someone who hasn't been able to walk in a couple of decades, and then, miraculously they're given back the ability to walk. They don't just jump up and run off. They have to learn how to use their legs. They have to strengthen their muscles, learn how to balance... in the beginning they fall a lot, and as they become more adept they can walk a few feet at a time. Over the course of time they learn how to do all the things everyone else can do... but in the beginning it all feels very unnatural and strained. Is walking better than being crippled? Of course. But if you've been crippled for a very long time then that is what you know best, while walking seems foreign, awkward and intimidating. We gravitate to what we know. Give it time. Before long you'll be walking with the best of them, and you'll be comfortable doing it. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/6/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 19 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 495 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $175.75 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 28 [B]Seconds:[/B] 27
17 years ago 0 1543 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Trish, The ups and downs will continue for awhile. For most people anyway. The thing is this;... there gets to be LESS downs and more ups as time goes by. It seems there is two week markers... then three week markers and one month markers where craves seem to come back. Sometimes it may be something going on in your life that you subconsciencely identify with smoking. I'm going through that now. I leave for vacation to Florida the day after tomorrow and I am having more craves than usual. I know it is because I associate vacations with smoking. Be kind to yourself. The best way to get over these craves is distraction. At least I found this to be true for me. In the beginning I would purposely do something that would eat up time till bedtime. Even if it was a movie. Hey..... a movie takes a couple of hours where you can think of something else besides cigarettes. I know it is yucky....what we are going through....BUT.... it is the only way. Like everyone says...."No pain..NO gain". Tell yourself over and over again..."I don't "got" to quit....I "get" to quit!" thinking of you and hopes this helps Mercy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/21/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 63 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,275 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $281.61 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 8 [B]Hrs:[/B] 6 [B]Mins:[/B] 27 [B]Seconds:[/B] 31
17 years ago 0 3207 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey Trish i just read a post in Need Motivation thread, posted by Bingo. Helped me a lot, maybe it will help you too? I followed his links to some of his posts as well as others..reminders of why it's good to quit...and support for going through the toughness of it. Hope it helps. Don't give up!!!
17 years ago 0 3 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I am on day 10 of no smoking. I am the most miserable bit*7. I thought after a couple of days I would feel better. The anxiety is overwhelming...what is going on...I thought I would get better...the first couple days were ok...now I'm a mess.
17 years ago 0 932 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey Trish, I know, I know. For me, Day 1 and 2 were fine. Day 3 totally sucked!!!! Then I was fine but I was b***h slapped on Day 10. And yes, the anxiety was horrible for me too. I just had to keep hanging in there. That's what you have to do. If your anxiety doesn't get better or if it's debilitating, then you should talk to your doctor. Anxiety is part of the quit and I promise, it does get better. I know, that's hard to believe but it really does. Really do the breathing exercises when you're feeling that anxiety. Also, drink a lot of water. It really helps. I'll paste the breathing exercises below. Casey posted them and I kept them. Deep Breathing: 1) Take a slow deep breath in through your nose to the slow count of five. Push your tummy out at the same time. 2) Slowly breathe out through your mouth to the count of 7. 3) Repeat this 3 times, as you feel yourself relaxing and the stress dropping away. Tension Releasing: 1) Let go of the tension in your neck and shoulders. 2) Let go of the tension in your jaw. 3) Focus completely on your breathing, nothing else. 4) As you exhale, let your shoulders drop and let your body sink into wherever you are. 5)Repeat this until you feel relaxed and centered. These exercises really helped me out a lot. Hang in there and keep posting. You're doing such a great job and it really does get better. Tutti [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/18/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 41 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,881 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $147.19 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 4 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 14 [B]Seconds:[/B] 2
17 years ago 0 813 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Trish In the first instance let me say how proud I am of you in your 10 days...That was accomplished with a great deal of effort and as the days roll by, you will learn to thank yourself for putting forth the effort...I am not that long in my journey, but I can tell you this, SMOKING CHANGES NOTHING in our lives, it only harms us in horrible ways... Remember that this is a journey of mind and body...You must remain positve in your quit...You must know that you are doing the right thing for yourself and you must know that we are all addicted to the same drug...As addicts our minds have been trained to get and consume the drug at all costs...This is the nature of the junkie and make no mistake you and I an everyone here is a junkie...The only difference between us and the person who sticks a needle in their arm is that our drug is legal... It does get easier down the road, but if you are to get there, you must find ways of ignoring or in some way defeating the junkie in you that is telling you to smoke...I use distraction, deep breathing, self talk, water, water and more water...anything at all... But most of all I never forget that I am a junkie and as such will continue to have these urges until I CONTROL them with my own mind and will...It does get easier, stay positive and READ, READ, READ all of the posts here, it will serve to distract you when you are caraving and also give you hope as you realize that you are not alone here and many people will invest in your success...However, the most important person in this fight is you... Stay well my friend, I look forward to watching your number rise and rise and rise... nonic [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/25/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 96 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,313 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $672 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 17 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 45 [B]Seconds:[/B] 20

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