Hi hannaher -
What a wonderful opportunity for a couple of things... including letting him know how you're feeling (without judgment) and for learning how to take loving care of you on a deeper level...
At the beginning of my Quit (well and also the middle of the time frame of it) I was so vulnerable, as so many of us are... Our smoke screen is gone - that mask we had around us, which created a fog, protected us from feeling - ((really)) feeling our emotions.
We had an issue, got upset about something? We'd simply light up and poof - that smoke screen kept our feelings, our emotions, to a bare minimum...
Now, w/out that smoke screen, we are wide open, we are vulnerable... And I loved the opportunity to be so open, to feel so much more, to go deeper inside myself...
In this process, we have a stunning blessing of an opportunity to find ways to love ourselves, to take better care of ourselves...
So I invite you to allow this to be that opportunity... let him know your truth, wrap yourself in your gentle compassion, and be kind to you right now... You're wide open, friend - and your healing...
Post and let us know how you're doing... You are definitely not alone... We're all right here with you.
Blessings, Light and Love-
Healer
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/5/2006
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 240
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 8,420
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1116
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 31 [B]Hrs:[/B] 4 [B]Mins:[/B] 47 [B]Seconds:[/B] 47
