Phil is right. Sometimes when we get sauce we say things that are hurtful. ( I am the queen of it, that is why I don't drink much anymore.) Also when people are upset, words can sting. The phrase Sticks and stones may break bones but words can't hurt me. Yeah not so when you love someone.
Just forgive him in heart, tell him you are sorry, let bigons be bigon. Just don't smoke, or let this make you want to.
Grace