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17 years ago 0 175 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
CD - Steven Tyler once wrote 'you have to lose to learn how to win' (I'll let you guess the song). I'm a 30+ year smoker giving it another try. I think I've quit every year since I started...I failed so many times, I think I finally figured out how to do it right. I quit this Tuesday, for good this time. I'm keeping a positive attitide and keeping in touch with all of these great folks here. Smoking is disgusting and it's killng you. That's all I keep telling myself. I know how to quit this time. You'll see different folks here used different ways to quit...there's no magic potion (if you find one, let us know). If I can do it, anyone can. Good luck and stay on the board with us! Happy holidays! 2tone [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/26/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] -4 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
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Hi, CD: I have 7 days clean and free right now, and it isn't nearly as hard as it has been in the past when I quit; who knows why? I did go to a hypnotherapist, I have been taking Wellbutrin for a few weeks, but I sorta think the craving is all in my head. Certainly I am over whatever withdrawal stuff I might have had. Here's a couple of tips that have helped me: The cd that came with the NR patches which I tried before says that for a lot of us, the inhale of the cig was the deepest breath we took, and it suggests just taking a deep, slow breath, holding it for 3 seconds, then slowly exhaling through your mouth. This is good to do when you feel like you want a smoke. Another interesting and useful thing is an ancient Hindu meditation technique called "being the witness". It can be used like this: when you are totally into the desire and the craving for a cigarette, just mentally step back and examine your craving; say something like "Hmmm. How interesting. So that's what it feels like to really crave a smoke." Then you can decide whether to continue feeling that way, or to move on. This was originally in Ram Dass' book "Be Here Now". I am finding that the support from the people here on this site is great; even though I am truly computer-illiterate, and can't even get to the Instant Messaging place, I can still get so much help, as well as all of the information in the Program. Best of luck to you! lladro [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/15/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 6 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 145 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $33 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
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17 years ago 0 4 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Dear Denise. I would like to thank you for that//I do take ativans,but they dont always work,,But like i said'I am goning to stop if its the last thing i do....and i think i found the right place for support,,,everyone is amazing...can you please add me to your buddy list,again thanks :)
17 years ago 0 4 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
ok this may sound funny but im gonna talk to myself/ok CD you can do thid so get ready...you have 3 children who love and support you all the way,,,plus a wonderfull husband that is there the whole way...he is afraid you are going to have a magor breakdown..but helll,you are tough dont forget it..we are here
17 years ago 0 4 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I want to thank everyone who responded to my add. And Fern, you hit it right on the nose, about the Anxity. I have had alot of panic attacks. First one sent me to the E.R. That's my main concern of having another one when I try to stop. And trust me that's not the best feeling. Very scary. When i dont have a cigarette that's how i feel.. SCARED. Like i cant handle it. I'm not a failure and i know i can do this with a help of my family and my friends i met on here. So please keep me in touch and in mind. Thankyou CD [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/1/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] -23 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
17 years ago 0 4 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi I'm new to this,,I have mad my mind up to STOP.As of Jan-2-07,I;m gonna be smoke free.I know alot of you are saying 'why wait?,To tell you the truth,,I dont know.But with your help I hope I can do it.I have smoked 20 years,I have quit a few time.Once for 5 years.Then it was a weekend thing.You know Bars Music..all I know is i'm tired.I cant talk without clearing my throut.I tried not to long ago...But as you all can see,I failed :(I dont like to fail..i just need some help.so if anyone has anything to say ,please respond.And also one more thing,When i dont have a smoke,I fell like im going to freak out.thank you CD
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When I freaked out, I think I looked like this...[IMG]http://i136.photobucket.com/albums/q185/kaitilina/bleeh.gif[/IMG] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 31 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 689 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $170.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 19 [B]Seconds:[/B] 56
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Congratulations CD on your decision to quit. This is a fantastic website and it has alot of great information regarding quitting. The wonderful thing is that it is also full of people who know exactly what your going through. You want to quit....we all wanted to quit...you set a date...we all set a date....you are making a plan to cope with withdrawl and cravings, we all made a plan too. We support you and your decision and we will be there for you when you need help or just to vent. Welcome and keep us posted!! I'm counting down the days with you!! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 30 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 679 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $165 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 21 [B]Seconds:[/B] 21
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Among my several quits was a major 11 year quit. I've been smoking for the past three years, frequently saying that I will quit again. At one point I became staunch and declared that I would quit by this fall, Oct. or Nov. My boss, who is versed in addictions (and wonderful), asked me what was so significant about Oct. or Nov. I replied " It's not now ". But now it is now and in the past and I'm into my quit. And also one more thing,'When i don't have a smoke,I feel like im going to freak out.thank you CD". I love this!!! Because I frequently feel like this. But, you know what? This is not about what you feel. It's about what you know is better. And what you are strong enough to attain. I'm gotta tell ya now (this may be a secret and I may get censored -) but, this site is not for the faint of heart. Get real. Post often - even when you don't feel like it and reach out. We are all in the same boat. You'll learn from us and we'll learn from you. We may be on separate pages sometimes but we're all in the same book and supportive of each other. :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/19/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 18 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 190 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $90 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 7 [B]Seconds:[/B] 46
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"I like that -No one has died from quiting" I love that!!! You go girl. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/19/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 19 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 199 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $95 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 20 [B]Mins:[/B] 17 [B]Seconds:[/B] 18

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