Cheermom, it may take 21 days to break a habit, but this is an addiction and takes a lot longer.
It sounds like both you and your hubby are in the 30-day pit. This is a normal part of the process and usually only lasts a few days.
For some reason, men seem to have a much harder time quitting than women; some male ego thing. He's struggling and won't ask for help. You're struggling, but getting help here that makes your struggles more bearable. He sees you doing better than him, the ego thing kicks in, and now it's [u]your[/u] fault he's having problems. [i]"I didn't want to quit. You made me do it!"[/i]
Stay in counseling, give each other space, and above all else, protect your quit!
Shevie
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 408
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 8,168
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1550.4
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 76 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 17 [B]Seconds:[/B] 33
