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18 years ago 0 95 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
First of all, welcome Kitty! As far as the reaction you get from others there are a few things you can do: 1. Don't tell them. If they notice you have quit, politely say, "Yes, I have quit. It isn't the easiest thing in the world to do, but I am giving everything I have". 2. Tell them you've quit. When they laugh, explain to them that they hurt your feelings/offended you and you would appreciate a little support instead because it's a difficult thing to do. I would suggest that you spend some time looking at yourself and figuring out just why you failed to quit in previous attempts. This will be your key to success! Work through the tools at the left if you haven't already. Read through the posts and various threads going on here. There's a lot of wisdom and stuff to help you through. Remember, we ALL know what you are going through. As far as that empty stomach feeling...well, a lot of people that quit tend to fill it with food. It's not the best approach though...but if you eat healthy things such as carrots, celery, or fruit...you'll be fine. It is a transitional thing until your mind and body get used to not smoking. I literally ate all day every day my first week of quit. I am in my 2nd week and I've pretty much gotten back to my normal eating and have started back at the gym. You just need to learn/condition yourself to fill all that time you used to spend smoking! It's great! p.s. Don't ever think you have gone on too much here...that's what this site is for and that is why we are all here. Remember, read and post, read and post, read and post! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/3/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 89 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $27 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 22 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6
18 years ago 0 64 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi, I quit smoking today, it seems that i try to quit every other week and never seem to follow through. But I'm feeling pretty confident about it this time. I have 2 questions though and i was hoping someone can help. 1-What do you say to those people that when you tell them you quit smoking they laugh and say "again"?( i hate them) 2-How do you get rid of that empty feeling in your belly? that's what seems to be the worst withdrawal symptom for me. Sorry went on so much :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/12/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 0 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
18 years ago 0 64 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I just feel like its only been one day and im already complaining when i tell people that i quit and they say for how long and i say one day thats what they find funny i think. I take it as, its only gonna get worse.
18 years ago 0 711 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Kitty....."went on"! good grief............you hardly got started.....have a look at some of my monster rambling posts full of balderdash and piffle! What do you say to people who say "again"......well in about 6 months time you can say "its been six months now!" God! won't that feel good! Empty feeling? We seem to have the notion that we are giving up smoking. This implies a loss, the removal of our little friend, our support, this drug called nicotine. I won't bore you with the things that nicotine does to your brain, you can find that out from reading and research. I will however point out that you are giving up nothing!!!!! Not one little thing, and when that realisation hits (and it can take a while), then the sense of loss disappears...............on the other hand you could just be hungry! (just joking!). Loads of really good advice in your thread that I hope will help, but remember to post and use the support that I found so invalauble. Mad Englishman Brent [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/8/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 36 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 258 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �180 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 38
18 years ago 0 86 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Kitty, Congratulations on your decision to quit. It takes a lot of stregnth, willpower, and courage to give up something that has been your friend for a period of time. This first week is considered as Hell Week because it is the hardest. Week 2 is Heck Week because it is not as intense. If your stomache feels empty, put something in there and dont worry bout gaining weight. It is best to lose your quit first, then worry bout weight at another time. Be strong, hang in there and dont hesitate to post and talk all you want. We are here for you. Tony :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/2/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 12 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 249 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $36 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 30 [B]Seconds:[/B] 28
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Kitty, Congrats on quitting smoking. Those "friends" of yours, I'm guessing, are smokers? If so, then they WANT to see you fail because if you don't, then they might have to face the fact that it CAN be done and that's a scary reality for some people to face. The best revenge is to prove them wrong! Do it this time and don't worry about what they say. I know that's easier said than done, but if you stay quit, then they'll have to eat those words... use THAT as a little motivation when times get tough... remember how much you want to stick it to those that put you down and said you couldn't do it! Anything to keep you motivated, in my opinion, is great! That "empty" feeling in the pit of your stomach will hopefully go away. There's a saying here H.A.L.T. - don't let yourself get hungry, angry, lonely or tired. The "H" is the first one, and often the one that people mistake for cravings. So, get some healthy foods to snack on for the first few weeks of your quit. Best wishes! Crave the Quit! Butterfly [IMG]http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c177/kissnflirt/butterfly3.gif[/IMG] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/28/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 77 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,942 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $254.1 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 20 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
18 years ago 0 989 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
cONGRATUlations! Regarding your questions: 1) You could be quiet about it - the quit is between you and yourself and noone else. 2) You could say....yes you are right..."again! I have learned that nicotine addiction is one the hardest addictions to break. Even harder than heroin. I have learned that I am an addict. Withdrawal is awful. I am hopeful and confident that this time I will succeed" (Sometimes "agreeing" with thoughtless people takes the wind out of their sails) 3) That pit in your stomach - the loss and grief you are experiencing, the depression, the wondering when will I ever feel normal and happy again are normal. They are the first signs that your body is recognizing the new feeling of no nicotine. Use all of the coping skills that you can.....but remember to embrace every withdrawal symptom as proof that you are on your road to recovery. Read and post every second that you can. 4) Don't apologize for going on and on. That is what this site is here for. Most of us will tell you this ability to rant and rave during the process was essential to keeping us going! Best wishes! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 4/15/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 273 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 6,834 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $955.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 38 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 55 [B]Seconds:[/B] 14
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18 years ago 0 407 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Ditto to all above here. I agree with you on the frustration when others will not leave you along as you try and improve your life. Those that say those things are the worst at sticking to a plan...belive me. Well, it is time for you to say IT IS POSSIBLE! And, remember my favorite saying here in the daily quotes - [i]Others have gone before you...you can too![/i] Empty stomach is because you have dumped a someone whom you thought was a friend. Nothing is further from the truth. That monster will set right there and watch you or I kill ourselves and chalk up yet another one to his total. Cast it out of your life. You will be so proud. Congrats' on being here. Learn a lot so you can stick your smoky smelling tongue at them. Prior to this it stunk. Not now. Lindsey [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/10/2001 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1586 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 95,200 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $15860 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 327 [B]Hrs:[/B] 9 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 40
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18 years ago 0 12049 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Kitty, Welcome! The decision to quit smoking in itself is such a huge step in the right direction. It is important when deciding to quit, that we quit for the right reasons and that we truly feel we are ready to quit smoking. Honesty with one self is key to a successfull quit. Be true to yourself and your endeavor to quit smoking and you will successfully succeed. Laugh with others and keep in mind who your true friends are. They will be the ones holding the" you did it flag" If you have not, please take advantage of our free quit program as you access your glove compartment when logging on to our site. This program will help you through each step of the quitting process. The tools and tips will help you with the empty feeling and show you how to avoid and distract. Remember the SSC Support Team is always here to help you with your quit. Please keep us posted. Josie _______________________ The SSC Support Team.

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