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Welcome Tiff8433,

You have come to the right place. Anxiety can be controlled. In fact,  anxiety disorders are one  of the most treatable  mental health issues  out there. If you put the work into this program you will  likely start to see a difference within the  first few sessions. Have you had a chance  to get started? Any questions so far?
 
It sounds like you have found two triggers. Speaking in meetings and driving. You can work an exposure plan around  these two fears.  You may feel  like the panic comes out of nowhere but this usually  isn't the case. After a few weeks of monitoring your thoughts you will likely find a pattern you will be able to challenge.
 
How are you doing today?
 

Ashley, Health Educator
10 years ago 0 6252 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
An interesting thing with CBT is that you can function and not be fogged in. You can worry just as much as you used to but it doesn't have the same effect. Priorities become realistic and not a source of unending doom. Life might still be crappy some of the time but it just doesn't seem to have that painful control it used to have. I am in control, not it. 
Now there is no doubt the pills work and work faster but how they work is what bothers me. Worry, anxiety and panic are all normal but should fall under the heading "concern" not terror. You are supposed to be able to deal with them in a calm rational manner. And if you get the medication just right you can do this. But it takes a conscious effort to do this and the tendency is to do "if some is good more is better". And you have to stay on it or it comes back unless you have mastered CBT to replace it. A friend of mine has stopped her medication but is scared to do anything that might trigger panic. She has become a timid little mouse. CBT would have given her the skills to ride out the triggers with little or no effect. It would have given her the skills to shrug them off as being there but not important. And they are going to be there anyway. That is just how life is. The so called normal people just deal with them better. She will crash, and be back on the pills. I have never seen anyone take pills for a while and get a cure. But, and this is a big but, the pills do make doing CBT easier, if a person does it. Most don't because they think they don't have too. Why bother, they think they are fine. They don't see the periods when they are not. Instead their world shrinks down to the periods when they are fine and anxiety still rules their life and unfortunately those around them too till they start losing them. It isn't worth it. We are social creatures, learn CBT so you can stay social and be happy. I am.

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My experience has been thus. SSRIs didn't work for me. There are a few of us that they don't work for. Mood stabilizers do. They are a different class of anti depressant. But they do make me sleepy.
As for the benzo's I found I had to up the dose over the four years I took them. Second time I took them.  First time I just changed my lifestyle and was okay for a while. It took a year to get off and only because I used CBT to replace them. If you change your thought patterns you don't need them. CBT only works if you don't resist it. And you will. Change is not easy at the best of times. Changing how you think you need to think and have learned to think is very hard to do but must be. Things will look different, people will look different and you may need to make changes in your life that will affect other people. How bad do you want this? Bad enough to lose the way you live now but keep your sanity and be happier? There is a price to pay for change.  Some people can't do it. I did and it cost me but was worth it. I will never go back to pills to get through the day. Pills to go to the store, pills to sleep. That is not life as it is meant to be and can be.

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I decided to check out this site because I am dealing with panic disorder. My panic attacks come out of nowhere mostly when I am driving or when I am supposed to be participating in my morning meetings at work. I've suffered from panic attacks for about 10 years, and have been on all types of meds. I currently have a general practitioner that wants to shove every possible antidepressant down my throat. I am super sensitive to most that I have tried, and I have a full time job that I have to be mentally focused for, and she doesn't understand why I stop taking them after a few days. I can't sleep, I'm dizzy, my head is cloudy, I feel higher than a kite, etc. I have noticed what works for me is taking 0.25mgs of Xanax 4 times a day so it is constantly in my system. She is totally against this form of treatment, and has told me she will never increase my dosage. She prescribes me 0.25mg to be used no more than twice a day. I am currently trying to find another doctor and have an appointment with a psychiatrist, but not until mid June. I just wish there was another way of dealing with these attacks and I am looking for any help anyone has to offer. I don't want to be on meds for the rest of my life. I just want to live my life free of fear. I remember when it wasn't a big deal to get in my car and just drive. Now, I worry that I will panic when I get in my car for a short distance. I am moving in with my boyfriend this weekend, which makes my drive to work an additional half hour and that's because I avoid expressway driving. Does anyone have any tricks they use to deal while driving?

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