Smoke-Free or Smoke-Free-Wannabe?
lol legend..thanks for injecting a litle humor into this discussion.
I agree that what you do with your quit meter is up to you. But, I also feel like Ki, in that seeing other people's quit meters are an important tool in my determination to remain quit, i.e., If they can do it, so can I, and if they aren't truly reflective of days smoke-free, then it is disappointing, and not really as motivating.
I was confused about the difference between a slip and a relapse until it was explained to me, and it makes sense....a relapse is more of a return to previous behavior patterns, not just a one time deal.
The idea of re-setting your quit meter a day for a slip seems reasonable, but just throwing it out there, what if someone sees that as a small price to pay for occasionally smoking? That is, for those who invest a lot of weight in their quit meters.
I also agree that this site is very supportive in people's quits...no matter what their approach/level of commitment/length of time. So, I can see why some might be bothered by Ki's mention of this issue, thinking she is not being supportive, however I didn't see anything judgmental in her post at all. She was stating how it affected her when she reads about people slipping or relapsing and not re-setting their quit meters, so I am totally in support of her bringing it up, and applaud her for it, because it is important to HER quit.
Bottom line, different things mean different things to each of us, we each have a right to express our opinions, and, most of all, we are all in this together, remaining smoke-free!!!!
Keep the Quit, Everybody!
-aloha
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/22/2007
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 50
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,032
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $340
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 48 [B]Seconds:[/B] 3