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Wow Hitting50.....it's amazing how much we mirror each other. I am beginning to feel more and more that I can do this. I think we could be great support for each other. Like you the weekends are very difficult for me to not drink. I did have a few last night, but woke up this morning feeling like crap and pissed at myself for drinking last night, then I read your post and I felt like someone out there truly knows what I'm going through, and how I'm feeling. I had my massage this morning and when I got home I got doing laundry then had to run out to Home Depot for paint and finishing supplies for the bathroom. I haven't started working in there yet, my husband is doing the last part of the tile work, but I did go outside and did a lot of clean up in my flower beds and trimmed a lot of my shrubs. I sat down and had a cold club soda with a twist of lime.
My best friend is planning to stop over this afternoon, she is my drinking buddy. I have already decided what I'm going to tell her when I refuse a drink. I'll tell her that I'm slowing it down for a bit because I want to lose a few lbs. Rewarding yourself is a great way to celebrate your success of being one week drink free. I like the 6 month plan of having the blood vessels removed. I got my first and only tattoo at 44 years old...not ready to get rid of it yet...lol.
My daughter is 9 years old. She is the light of my life. I want to do this for her and for my health. I may be 46 years old but I don't want to look like a 46 year old or someone even older. I've put too much money into staying young looking, booze is just blowing it away.
I will be thinking of you this afternoon, I know you can make it through the day without booze. My club soda is my drink of choice today. There is booze in my house, but I'll remain strong and not have any. I won't begrudge my husband a drink, just because I'm trying to live a sober life. I too will check in later today to see how you're holding up, and let you know how it's going for me.