Hello, Diamond here with story and questions
m, you make me shy. You are so kind and say such encouraging things... it really helps, you know.
You're right about the overwhelmingness (?) and the smaller steps towards a goal. That made me realize something, and I wonder if anyone else has this too. Very often, I do not notice at all that something is overwhelming. Only in hindsight, often when damage is done 1 way or another, I can tell the signs were there, but I translate them differently in my denial of being overwhelmed.
For example: I become restless - it feels like a bit more energy for coping with the situation.
I am not centered in myself anymore - instead I focus on the thing that is going on, and focus is good,right?
I'm on the edge of tears - I tell myself its normal, its who I am and I am in recovery.
I want to run away/hide/go home - I force myself to finish what I started.
Even when Im aware something is really wrong (this is usually when Im out of the house) I cannot change it, and even when I can, I still end up with pain. As if it is unleached. Maybe I could post this also in another thread.
Anyway, I did a lot of reading on this site yesterday, posted some messages. That felt good. Another good thing: on May 9th I have the interview at the day treatment center, and I expect to start real soon after that. You"re right m, it does sound like a good program. One of the HE's posted somewhere that a combination of CBT, Interpersonal Therapy and medication heals 80% of MDD uhm... sufferers? patients? MDDers? Well, us. They also have Mindfulness on the menu. If they would add yoga and creative therapy I think Im gonna stay forever haha. So, even though I don't feel so lucky, I know I am, for getting this opportunity. Better late than never!
Diamond