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Congratulations on your quit!
I just wanted to add that I was one of those kinds of smokers. I would try to sabbotoge someones quit. I'm not sure why..... I assume now that I was jealous. But why I would go to that measure to help my friends lose their quit, is beyond me.
I agree with what smokingsux said. Never think that quitting smoking is something you have to do. This is something you CHOOSE to do. Your choices are bringing you health, life, and healing. It is a wonderful thing you are doing. Even if you don't feel "wonderful" right away, try as hard as you can to fake it. I guarentee you will trick your mind into believing it.
Keep positive thoughts. Drink tons of water. Clean you house to rid that smell. Go for a walk. Take deep breaths. Eat hard candies. Sign up for a Yoga or Pilates class. Go for a bike ride. The more positive things you add into your life right now, the smoother the ride will be. Make this a chance to start over with your health and life.
DO make sure you find info on second hand smoke. He is hurting his son in so many ways. I would never smoke around my girls, however, they did enter the garage, and the smoke is still there. So I did the same thing as your fiance. Just to a different degree. When my oldest daughter was 2, she developed asthma. Boy, I wonder why.................... I also developed asthma. I didn't stop smoking until 1 year later. Here in So California, asthma amongst children is an epidemic. Almost everyone I know has some sort of asthma. Asthma is scarey. Do some research on that too. That is possibly where he is taking his son to. I feel really bad for his son. To have to choke to breathe when he is with his father. That is really sad.......................
Okay, now, this is YOUR quit. You own it. You are doing a wonderful thing for yourself! Embrace it!
Keep us posted.........
;) 4my2girls
[b][i][color=Maroon]What Consumes Your Thoughts Controls Your Life[/i][/b][/color]
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/5/2006
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 81
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,445
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $264.87
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 41