Darkblue,
Lots of great advice and support. Here is another breathing technique that might help.
DEEP BREATHING:
1) Take a slow deep breath in through your nose to the slow count of five. Push your tummy out at the same time.
2) Slowly breathe out through your mouth to the count of 7.
3) Repeat this 3 times, as you feel yourself relaxing and the stress dropping away.
TENSION RELEASING:
1) Let go of the tension in your neck and shoulders.
2) Let go of the tension in your jaw.
3) Focus completely on your breathing, nothing else.
4) As you exhale, let your shoulders drop and let your body sink into wherever you are.
5)Repeat this until you feel relaxed and centered.
It's a skill. You have to practice several times a day to make it a normal part of your routine.
Josie, Health Educator