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12 years ago 0 2508 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Good morning Sunny,
 
Thank you so much for the update..Its good to hear that Davit is out of surgery and the doctors and nurses are taking good care of him..So sorry to hear your glaucoma is acting up but glad that you are seeing a doctor today about it. Taking care of yourself is so important now especially with all the added stress..
 
I will keep you and Davit in my prayers as always..I know you will find strength and comfort in him who watches out for us all..
 
God Bless
Red....
12 years ago 0 11226 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Sunny,
 
Thanks so much for the update. I hate hearing how serious this is but love how it's still the same old Davit. Even in his pain he is thinking of new ways to help people and explain anxiety more thoroughly.
 
Glad to hear you are taking care of yourself as best you can. Try not to worry too much about the cats at this point. I'm sure they'll be fine. I have heard if you give them a bath the allergens reduce a bit - maybe you will want to do some research on it when you have more time and energy - right now it sounds like there are a lot more important things to do.  
 
Take care and keep staying strong.
 
 

Ashley, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 1665 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi:  I have Davit on the phone right now and he has asked me to tell you this:

I am off the oxygen machine now, but still on two antibiotics.  I'm starving - no food since the beginning, not even ice chips anymore.  I've had hallucinations from the meds and have had some insights about the reasons why anxiety comes about afterward which I will like to share afterward when I get out of the hospital.   There is still a lot of infection in my wound and i can only lie on my back and not move.  I have very large temporary stitches to hold everything together, but they are not the final ones.  I have to go back after this heals a bit for the smaller staples.  I have the dressings changed twice a day, soemtimes three.  
Sunny brought me apple blossoms from the apple trees and from Juanita, a floral arrangement.  
It is boring just lying here but am weak and can do nothing.   My mouth is so dry but have those little sticks to moisten.  

Someone has come to see him and he is off the phone now.  I can add to this that it is very serious.  He had to be opened up again because of the infection - as you may already know his immune system is very weak and it's hard to fight off the infection.  They had to clean it out again an remove quite a bit of flesh.  He had two blood transfusions yesterday.    The doctor has told me it will be at least a month in the hospital before he can be transferred to the hospital close to home.  

I didn't write any of this before because it is upsetting but I know many of you care for Davit.  This is why I am asking for your prayers as it is serious.

I am feeling very tired and stressed.  My glaucoma is acting up and doubt if I could drive to the hosp. just yet which is over two hours away - it is mountain driving, many curves and much wildlife to watch out for.  I think I strained my eyes.  My left eye is painful and not opening all the way.  Have a doc. appt. this a.m. - an hour away.  Well, when you live in the country, forest country, things are far away.  I have watered the greenhouses already and the other things, going to get ready for my appt.  I am feeling kind of numb, praying and trying to keep positive.  Yesterday I did lots of deep breathing, PMR and had long nap.  I really needed it.  Also, eating lightly and more often.  Kind of  grazing I guess.  Don't  feel like cooking much but know I have to eat healthy and I am.  His cats are missing him like crazy and I am allergic so I can't cuddle with them, maybe a scratch on the head is about all.  then I have to wash my hands.  oh dear....

That's about it for now, a kind of wait and see situation.  Thank goodness we can talk on the phone as often as we wish, that helps.


Sunny
 
12 years ago 0 2508 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sunny,
Don't want to be nosy but I was wondering if wanted to share a update on Davit's condition and how the two of you are doing? There are many of us here in the group that have developed a friendship with him over the months and years and are concerned about him..especially now that we know he is in the hospital with very serious health issues..Some of us are praying for him and we are all thinking about him and wishing him well..
 
Please update when you can...
Red..
12 years ago 0 250 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Davit has helped me in the past so my thoughts and prayers are with you and Davit. I hope everything turns out ok.

Sunflower
12 years ago 0 2508 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sunny,
My thoughts are with you and Davit today..
 
Red..
12 years ago 0 424 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sunny,i am so sad to hear this about Davitt..please tell him he is in our prayers,and you aswell,i am sure this is so stressful for you..i do pray and hope things go better for you both,and please keep us posted,when i first came to this site,he was the first one to talk to me here,wish him well for me please!
Bren
12 years ago 0 11226 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sending positive thoughts and energy Sunny.
 
 

Ashley, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 1665 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi:  Since Davit was now in a regular room after ICU, I went home (2.5 hrs. away) to take care of the pets and greenhouses.  I received a call late this afternoon from his surgeon who says he has to have another surgery a.s.a.p. as it is badly infected.  As you know Davit's immune system is already low so I am truly concerned.  I am hoping to get a phone call soon.  I am happy we had a chance to talk on the phone about an hour before he went for surgery. 

I'm trying not to get anxious, but of course, it is normal to be anxious when someone you love is having surgery.  A lot of "what if's" are coming up and I am using coping skills for those.  

I am asking for your prayers again.  Thanks,
Sunny








12 years ago 0 30 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi It's been a long while since I visited for various reasons, but I am sorry to hear about Davit.  Wishing you both all the best.  Regards Matilda x
 

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