I love to read as well, I have great book called Boundries, it is written by two psychologist and really enlighting it talks about setting relationship boundries, instead of being the person who never says no, beacause they feel to guilty.I have read on here alot of blogs, I think this book would be perfect for alot of us, { myself included} my therapist recomended it. reading is very relaxing it is like a mini vacation to forget anxiety for awhile jaybe