Hi Eleveno: This is what I learned about anxious thoughts which I'd like to share. Maybe you'll get an idea.
Negative to Positive Thinking Styles:
from Self criticism to Self Encouragement
from Blowing things out of Proportion to Bringing Things ino Focus - catastrophic thoughts
from Black and White thinking to Clear thinking
from "I should" statements to "I will" statements
from Self blaming to Self accepting
from Self doubting to Self approval
from "What if" thinking to "So what" thinking
from Mind Reading to Constructive Questioning - jumping to conclusions
from Disbelieving to Believing - some people don't believe good things can happen to them
from Perfectionism to Moderation - some people don't think anything they do or are, is good enough
Your friend, Sunny