Hi there CD,
It is certainly hard work for you to deal with panic attacks and anxiety as well as gallbladder pain AND the responsibility of being a full-time mom.
Have you tried deep breathing exercises as you feel the anxiety creeping up? This may help to calm you down and avoid an attack if you practice regularly. Also try journalling daily before bedtime............writing down all your feelings, thoughts and reflections of the day. This may help to organize your thoughts so they don't build up into a panic.
You're doing a fabulous job juggling everything!
Faryal, Health Educator