Well i agree with you on that. The more informed your BF is the better his chance of understanding you.
Also, have you thought of checking in your area for support groups? i know in my area for exemple there is not only support groups for people who have the anxiety problem but support groups for the people who live with them or for their families. Such a support group might help your BF if it exists in your area.
Anyway, i am glad i could help you find the review material :)
Hang in there it gets better.
-Diva