He refuses to go to AA as he believes it is based on a religious foundation. Today I gave him an ultimatum to leave within 60 days or show proof of attending a rehabilitation program etc. This was based on the decision that he awoke this morning after going to bed with the inability to barely walk last night and started drinking again. He now goes out to his work van and sits and drinks because he knows he won't get away with it anymore in the house or on the property. He has reached the point and has nowhere to go. However, I did make it clear that if he wanted to talk and deal with it I would be here to support him. He is still in denial.
I don't think he is ready. Hopefully, he doesn't hurt himself or anyone else while driving under the influence. I may have no choice but to call the police if I am sure when he is doing this.