Hello! My name is Dahlia and I am here because I believe I need help and gain some control of my life. I am very scared and intimidated by all my troubles. I browsed quickly this website and decided to give it a try. I have already won one addiction which was smoking and although I am grateful I was able to kick it, I remember all too well how agonizing it was. I am 49 years old and to be honest I think I have had this problem for about 20 years. There were times when I was totally out of control, the last few years however have been different. I have found a safe dose of my lovely wine that allows me to get up in the morning and go to work. This last weekend however I realized that this safe dose is a killer and is not safe at all. I barely get up in the morning and drag myself to see our patients at nine a.m. (dental office), otherwise I'd loose my job as it happened before. Twice.
Four years ago I got a seizure and ended up in emergency. I stayed there for nine days because they had to get me back to normal. Today and ever since I am scared to death it would happen again. I did my research and I know that seizures tend to happen when you stop drinking (I drink every day my 3 glasses). This fear kills me and it's on my mind all the time.
This last weekend I think I hit rock bottom. I drank 4 litres of wine in three days. That's why I'm scared. I drink. I get up, go about my business and drink more. I had no idea I could drink that much. And still be alive functioning without an IV in my veins.
My fear for today and for now in general? I decided to make a change and stop tomorrow. I made that decision and I need to stick to it. But I am really really afraid. It is my dad's birthday this coming weekend and I am just scared I will not make it. I am afraid that the seizure will get me again when I stop drinking. It happened only once but it was once too much.
I missed quite a few family celebrations because of this problem and my parents have no clue what is really happening with me. I can't even imagine how my mum would feel once she finds out...
Only one thing makes me happy now: I am brave enough to reach out and somehow I already feel some comfort in my heart knowing that someone will read it and will care about me.
Please help me with this.