Dear Ashley,
Thank you for the response and the nice compliments.
I actually think I have been too easy on myself as I relapsed in the past. "Oh, I'm only human. I've been good. A few drinks won't kill me". I am easy on myself in the beginning.
Later, when I am going through physical and emotional withdrawal, you're darned right I am hard on myself. Because I am going through this AGAIN, and I *knew* better. I have to be harder than ever on myself at this point. Tough love.
Hard is a good word. Every time I quit, the withdrawal is harder. It would be easy---so horribly easy---to go buy a twelve-pack or a bottle, and all of my troubles would be forgotten. For a brief time. It's hard, sometimes, to say no. Sometimes I feel like I will never drink again, and it will be a cinch. Other times I am extremely tempted to have a few drinks "just this once" again. To listen to that lying voice inside me.
Everything worth doing is difficult and discipline is hard. And we have to be hard on ourselves to reach our goals.
That's my take on it, anyway.
All that said, I am pleased with my progress this time. My self-confidence is building with each day.
~Mark