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Short term v. long term


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Hi ~m,
 
To me it sounds like you are figuring out what works for you, that's a good thing!
 
When it comes to goals having short term goals that lead to a long term goal is a great idea!  By achieving short term goals it is easier to stay motivated  Have you heard of SMART goals?  Making sure your goals fit into the SMART acronym will help ensure you are successful.  Smart stands for:
Specific - clear and focused
Measurable - can quantify and evaluate your success. For example, only drink 2 drinks a week.
Attainable - You feel realistically you can achieve this goal
Resonant - For most R in smart stands for realistic but as a coach I like to use Resonant, meaning it is important to you and is something you really want to achieve.
Time Stamped - you can reach a date when you know you have achieved your goal. For example, not have a drink for two weeks.
 
Once you reach your short term goal be sure to reward yourself to reinforce the behaviour and to celebrate you!
 
How do you think applying this acronym can help you?
 

 
 
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
13 years ago 0 1022 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Somewhere recently I was challenged (by Tiana I think) to rework my short term v. long term goals... I can't seem to find that thread, so will start another one.  I have been thinking  about this and trying to break it down.  For me, the smaller the goal.... the more likely I'll stick with it.  I think most people set a short term goal to quit (for a month or so) and then try moderation.  I haven't had much luck with that route.  So I'm trying sort of a backwards way, which is to cut down to two or less per day for a month and then re-evaluate.
 
I'm just wondering how other ppl are setting goals and how much success you are having.  Have you had to adjust and re-adjust your goals?  Am I just being wishy-washy in my method? Is it time to just give up the ruse/hypocrisy/fantasy of changing my relationship with alcohol?  Is it time to admit I don't really want to live sober?  Because if I did, I would have done it by now.
 
Ooh... feelin' cranky agin.

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