I'm with you, I quit Monday at 7pm. So I'm at 3 days, 19 hours and 34 minutes... but who's counting? I'm using an ecig... kind of feels like cheating, but this is the closest to believing I could do it that I've been in 14 years. For the first time I don't feel like I'm TRYING to quit, I feel like I'm quitting. I was with my BF (who's also a smoker) when I had my last one and I tried to have a moment of... silence?... whatever, a moment to enjoy my last one - he didn't get it, just kept chatting away about whatever he was talking about. So it's not just your husband, I hear you!