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13 years ago 0 653 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey Roxie,
 
You sound so balanced. Nice. As Eya said, elevate that sore toe, enjoy your rewards today.  Keep being gentle with yourself- that is so important- and stay strong. I'm sure some folks will chime in and let you know how they gave themselves some appropriate rewards at each stage.
 
 
 
Tiana, Health Educator
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13 years ago 0 823 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey ShyOne!  Hey JoDee!  Hey Cozmo! Hey Kiwi (with your impressive New Years' quit of 2005!)  And Hi to everyone checking in on this post today  -  I need to go to work soon, but will have time to read more posts tonight. For now:  BIG BEAR HUGS Back 2 U 2 Roxie (ShyOne) & JoDee!  So sorry about your toe Rox! OWWWW! $#@&^^!! Hopefully your can keep your tootsies up on a pillow while watching Netflix today.  So glad you're keeping the quit even though your quit bud bailed on you! You don't sound selfish to me BTW! We seem to have a similar quit style - perhaps you can take a boo at Nonic's last msg on JoDee's 'Irrational Fear' post regarding the smoking/alcohol connection - his points make sense - I had to really think about them - maybe will help U  2   and JoDee! You're Patchless (just like CT now!) and going to the gym; hanging out with your girls - Awesome!  My stomachaches went away as soon as I dropped the patch too BTW - not sure why.  I left U a msg somewhere here ?? (duh!) about be kind to yourself with nice fresh fruit/veggie platters when you drop the patches - it was meant to help you find a nice way to get nicotine free - not to punish yourself with overdoing the prunes as I did - the whole reward idea is so much more humane!  Gotta run! Glad You are all here and we can say NOPE together!  
13 years ago 0 45 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Good morning :)
 
Alcohol and cigarettes seem to hit almost the same buttons in my brain... I don't usually drink this much, although I definitely have in the past! Fortunately, I find it much easier to say NO to a drink than to a cigarette, so when the time comes to ease off the whiskey, I'll be ready. I've done it before for the heck of it and went dry for six months. That was a long time ago and I'm still a very cheap date because I lost my tolerance! lol
 
I'm doing the program every day. I do the daily cravings journal, and I think I'm almost ready to make my pledge. As far as rewards go, I think I've been nicer to myself overall, so that has definitely helped. I try to mix rewards with something that's beneficial to me, and that provides me with something that the cigarettes used to. Let's see...
 
+ I play puzzle games online. So I'm re-training my brain to stay sharp and focused without being dependent on a substance.
+ I'm a lot more likely to permit myself healthy snacks and food other than beans and rice. Physically, I feel SO much better. Since I eat throughout the day, my blood sugar stays at that nice, energetic level. AND my metabolism shouldn't be slowing down (again, because I eat frequent, small meals/snacks).
+ This week, I will be using the dryer when I do laundry! Mmmm, soft towels...
+ And I'll be scheduling a dental cleaning. It's been... um... a while...
 
I'm having trouble coming up with something bigger than this for my two-week reward. I know that my one-month reward is getting my hair professionally dyed to its original color (which will save money in the long run anyway). But I'm sitting here on a Sunday morning, trying to figure out what it is that I want to do for myself and drawing a blank. I don't want to go all out, but I still want it to be somewhat significant.
 
Oh, DUH! I have Netflix! Woo-hoo! It's officially movie day! I've been putting off way too many movies, and some of them WILL get watched today. At least 2 or 3. :)
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Hi Roxie,
 
You are doing great! I'm impressed that you can continue to drink and still maintain your will power. Focusing on your achievements is really the way to go. Are you doing the program, and planning rewards for your successes?
 
Keep up the good work. Heck Week is almost in your rearview!
 
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13 years ago 0 45 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks again guys! :) I gotta say, it feels really good to have come this far. Granted, when I look at the achievements and see the five-year master one, I sometimes feel like I haven't done much at all by comparison. :(
 
So I stopped comparing, and instead I'm celebrating how far I've come. :)
I'm celebrating every single moment that I don't light up one of those f****** things.
 
...Or, on some days, I celebrate how far I've managed to claw my way up the wall! XD I find that it's somewhat comparable to rock climbing.
 
By the way, my friend who was supposed to quit with me hasn't reached her time yet. So there I was this morning, in the smoke shop, rolling her a carton of smokes! And I didn't have a single one... Not even the "herbal, tobacco-and-nicotine-free" cigarettes! Just popped a couple peppermints. Go me. Crispy chicken wraps for lunch = tasty reward.
 
Sorry if I sound conceited, but I stubbed my toe really bad and I've had a few shots. And now I'm starving, so I'm going to go make myself a couple of tuna salad sandwiches.
 
Thanks for being here! :) :)
13 years ago 0 377 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Roxie,
Tomorrow you will be through Heck Week which around here means that those first two weeks are the hardest to overcome.  So congrats for sticking it out and don't be shy in protecting that quit of yours, it's worth millions...Ron 
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Hey Roxie, if you havent done so already, click on the different forums and page down, then read read read...it's a good time killer early on and there are some informative, and sometimes, entertaining posts there. Never be afraid to ask a question. Most likely there's someone who can answer. Yay on your two smokeless weeks!!! Please do something nice for yourself. You deserve it.
13 years ago 0 45 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi everyone! Wow, thank you for all the responses and support! :) It feels good here...and it's awesome to get perspectives from so many different viewpoints. I'm not sure what else to say right now except that I REALLY appreciate that you all took the time to reply and share.
 
I'm going to lurk for a bit and get some sleep, and I'll definitely be back.  Thanks again! :)
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Welcome Shy One - You're already doing great with a bunch of days quit already under your belt!  Am so glad to hear that you're much less murderous than the effects of your recent nicotine deprivations suggests.  
That's a relief
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Love your profile pic, I thought that was very creative.  I found that if I caved, then I had all the mental engery of figuring out when I would quit again.  Every Monday was my new quit date.  I put my husband and my coworkers through the hell of my shortness and spaciness so many times.  So dig in and make this one work.

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