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14 years ago 0 206 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Good call, Fozzy.  Part of my quit (HA!  THIS time, anyway....) involves not just my lungs, but kind of a whole-body approach to better health.  Deciding to stop poisoning myself was one step, followed by the expected oral-fixation phase, where just about everything ended up in my mouth (let your imagination run wild), which led to out-of-control blood sugar and stuff like that.
 
Long story short, stopping smoking necessarily changes our eating habits, so why not use that sudden change to our advantage??  I started paying more attention to the yucky stuff like saturated fats, processed sugar, and all the garbage, then took my life in my hands and let someone (a professional, not just "anyone," duh) take some measurements, which about sent me on a 4-day bender.  Let's just say my waist, which was NEVER more than 34 inches, was the size of a fully-inflated hot-air balloon, and my arms and legs were the size of a pencil (and not those fat ones that little kids use... we're talking slim-line here).  YIKES.
 
Alcohol (and I'm a lazy drinker... all I do is pour jug wine... let someone with more energy mix all kinds of things together and add fruit or umbrellas or whatever) is nothing but empty calories.  They say 4 oz a day is okay, but I'm just not a 4-oz kind of guy.  (I poured 4 ozs the other day, just to see what it looked like. I called Spouse into the kitchen, and we ROLLED with laughter!!)
 
Now, oddly, even when I'm out, I have trouble finishing a 4-oz pour.  It just doesn't have the appeal it once did, even with fine food.  (Spouse, who has never drank or smoked, looks at me like, "Who IS this person, and what happened to my smelly, drunken, fat hubby?  Not that I think she's going to mount a full-scale search for the old coot; I'm becoming her "trophy spouse."  I'm like, "You can call me arm candy!"  She's like, "Yeah, maybe in another 5 years or so, if you keep it up.")  Which explains why I'm getting my support here and not there!  HA!
 
But incessant cravings aside, it really is fun to know that every little battle I win is another step toward hunkdom.  Now I have to find the vanity support forum.
 
So by all means, do yourself another big favor, and replace alcohol with water, herbal tea, or my personal fav, Vitamin Water.  The first morning I woke up without my normal post-cheap-red-wine headache, I thought not only was I in the wrong bed, I was in the wrong body! 
 
In for a penny, in for a pound I say.... give yourself a wel-deserved make-over!  You won't believe what it does for your skin tone!
 
peteg
14 years ago 0 11226 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Fozzy,
 
I think this is a very good choice.  It takes a lot of determination and strength to take a stand for your quit.  Good for you!
I don't think it is selfish, I think it is smart.  You can't make anyone happy if your not taking care of your health. Take a stand for yourself!
 
Keep taking deep breaths.  Realize this will pass and this is normal withdrawal.  Take heart in knowing this is probably one of the most important fights you have in your life.  Getting a little intense over it is ok   Keep rambling (you are not rambling by the way!) we are here to listen.



Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 19 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
After giving some serious thought, I have decided that I'm going to try and stay away from alcohol for awhile.  If I'm sober and can't stop thinking about smoking (today is a bad day), then if I'm drinking chances are I'll be dead in the water.  When I can get to a point where I'm not obsessing about smoking when I'm sober, then maybe I'll be more comfortable about having a drink.  Right now not smoking is more important to me then anything else.  I really have to be selfish in this whole thing if I want it to stick.  I spend so much of my life thinking and doing for everyone else that I don't stop and give myself any attention. 
 
Ugh!  It's only 9:20am and I'm not doing well.  I just want to feel better and I hate the fact that I'm snapping at everyone and everything anyone says is annoying me.  I'll be smoke free but end up on the unemployment line by the time this is over.  Well on a positive side, if I do lose my job, and have to go for unemployment, I won't be smoking because it's too expensive.  Ok, enough, I'm sorry for totally rambling, but it's been a bad week.
 
Thanks for listening!
14 years ago 0 410 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Fozzy,
I agree with Ashley. We all have different triggers on our (non-smoking) guns. In my case just about everything was a trigger as my whole life seemed to revolve around my smoking addiction. I had to concentrate on the biggest triggers first until I started to get used to life without cigarettes. Make sure you leave yourself a way out. If you get uncomfortable or tempted you can always depart from that situation. Right now the most important thing is to hold on to your quit!!
You can do this!
cameless 
14 years ago 0 11226 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Fozzy,
 
Only you can decide for sure if you are ready for a possible trigger situation.  It sounds like you have considered it carefully, and not drinking is probably a very good idea.  Whatever you decide to do be sure to make your quit top priority.
 
Also keep the emergency coping plan close at hand, you can find it under tools and resources.
 
Members, what are your thoughts?
 

 
 

Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 19 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey Ashley,
 
Will the party be a trigger?  Yes and no.  Yes because I'll be with friends who smoke and that will be a first for me as a non-smoker.  No because the smoking will not be inside the apartment.  For those who smoke, they will have to go outside so I think I'll be safe being in the apartment.  Also, if I'm sober I will have more will power.  What are your thoughts?
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Hi Fozzy,
 
You may experience some occasional dizziness during your quit. You are now absorbing more oxygen through your lungs than your body has been accustomed to. This dizziness may come once or twice a day for a few days. It usually lasts only one or two seconds, and is gone before you have time to do anything about it.

How long will this last? The first few days or weeks after quitting.

Tips to help: Take extra caution in the common physical things you do. Practice standing up or moving at a slower pace.

If you have a symptom that persists or seems worse than you expected, you should immediately consult a doctor. Its possible that your smoking has been masking symptoms of some illness, and when you stop smoking the symptoms abruptly become noticeable.

In regards to your party I think being the designated driver is a good idea. Normally we tell individuals to avoid trigger situations until they are farther along in their quits.  Is this party going to be a trigger event for you? 
 
 

Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 19 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0

Hello all,

I figured I would check in with everyone to let you know how I'm doing.  So it's been over 1 week that I have been smoke free.  Although I am very proud of myself and know that this is a major accomplishment, the cravings are still there, sometimes stronger than ever.  Not that I expected to get over something that I have been doing for 22 years in 1 week, but I thought maybe it would get easier.  I think I just expect to get over this way too quickly and I have to keep reminding myself to take it one day at a time.  As you can tell, I don't have alot of patience and expect things done quickly.  I guess I have to work on that.
So my husband is back from his business trip and I think that me quitting around the time that he was going to be away turned out to be a very good move.  If he had been around the first couple of days of me not smoking I think I would have caved.  He's being really good about not smoking around me which makes me feel good because he is supporting me in his own way. 
 
I have a Halloween party in a couple of weeks and it will be the first time I hang out with my friends as a non-smoker.  I'm a little nervous about it and am debating being the designated driver so I won't be even more tempted to smoke if I've been drinking.  I guess I just don't want to hear the usual stupid questions about why I'm not drinking from 5 different people at 5 different times.  However, as annoying as those questions will be, messing up and smoking a cigarette will be absolutely crushing.  So as I'm typing this, I think I have made up my mind to not drink.  Thanks guys!  I don't know what I would do without all of you.
 
I have been noticing lately that I've been getting some head rushes or dizzy spells sometimes when I get up from a sitting position.  Is this normal?  Can anyone tell me why this happens and if it will go away?
 
So that's my story for today.  I feel good and bad at the same time, but more good because I'm fighting this thing tooth and nail.
 
Hey forcemac, how are you doing?
 
Talk to you all soon,
 
Fozzy5 

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