my ex and i used to do this all the time..quit and then see if the other would cave- why because it was sooo much easier to forgive yourself cheating if your quit partner did too. i did it to him he did it to me...thank god he's an ex hahaha... but to keep your relationship together...he might be feeling a huge crave and begging for you to slip so it would be ok that he gave in... stick to your quit... i bet he will too!
My Mileage:
My Quit Date: 3/12/2010 Smoke-Free Days: 33 Cigarettes Not Smoked: 825 Amount Saved: $412.50 Life Gained: Days: 2 Hrs: 14 Mins: 45 Seconds: 21
OK it is reassuring to see that I have not lost my mind and I have not become a bi$&# in this quit smoking process. It does make things harder when hubby pressures me into smoking. I agree it might be just his way of seeing if I am ready to give up my quit. But I will make sure next time it happens that I will make it clear for him that smoking is not an option for me. He can do whatever he wants - but it would be such a pity. I fought hard to get to this point. I don't plan to go through the beginnings of this journey. Ever.
Thank you guys for the wonderful advice.
Keep the quit
Cristina
My Mileage:
My Quit Date: 10/5/2009 Smoke-Free Days: 191 Cigarettes Not Smoked: 6,685 Amount Saved: $869.05 Life Gained: Days: 18 Hrs: 4 Mins: 17 Seconds: 45
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