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14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 115

Thank you Lillyput!!!

And Goofy: if you were here, I'd invite you out to a glass of wine in a great European café: and we would rant, laugh and cry about the way love can go wrong. I hope you are doing better now!!! You always sound so strong!

Cat

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 4/14/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 72
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,440
Amount Saved: �331.20
Life Gained:
Days: 5 Hrs: 18 Mins: 58 Seconds: 44

14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 222

Hi Cat & Goofy

Cat,

You sound like someone very special to me you are kind, helpful and very caring and you know what they say what ever we put out there is coming back so you can only expect good things to happen to you.

Goofy

Sorry to hear about the breakup with your wife, You are one of kindness people here on the SSS you helped me when I was struggling in the early stages thank you.

Sending you both positive thoughts and energy best wishes

((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))

Lillyput.

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/2/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 540
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 16,200
Amount Saved: �5,913.00
Life Gained:
Days: 75 Hrs: 6 Mins: 18 Seconds: 4

14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 1904

Cat, don't get fooled. There really is not a beautiful way to suffer. Suffering is not dignifying.

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 5/1/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 54
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,458
Amount Saved: $546.75
Life Gained:
Days: 5 Hrs: 23 Mins: 41 Seconds: 27

14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 880

cat

Sorry I missed this. I think that we really are never alone. As long as you draw breath you always have you. Thats pretty daw gone special I think. Oh it is certainly nice to have someone with you, there is no doubt about it. We are not solitary creatures by nature. And I am sure that you will find someone along the way. You seem to be a very intelligent person with a myriad of interests, ya can't miss kid. Eventually you will find that connection, but in the meantime, work on making yourself stronger. The stronger you are in yourself, the more likely it is that you will recognize that person when they come by your door...

stay well

nonic

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/25/2006
Smoke-Free Days: 912
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 27,360
Amount Saved: $9,576.00
Life Gained:
Days: 174 Hrs: 3 Mins: 12 Seconds: 56

Quit Meter

$66,570.00

Amount Saved
Quit Meter

Days: 1373 Hours: 13

Minutes: 46 Seconds: 9

Life Gained
Quit Meter

6340

Smoke Free Days
Quit Meter

190,200

Cigarettes Not Smoked

14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 1843

Cat, the one thing to remember is that picking up a cigarette isn't going to make Romeo walk through the door. And there is a pretty good chance that Romeo might even walk out the door if he saw you smoking. Just remember that when you least expect it, that is when the good things in life occur. And tell that nicodemon to keep out of your life anyway! He's just trying to draw you back. But he isn't going to win, not this time! Keep saying N.O.P.E. and you'll go far!!!
My Milage:

My Quit Date: 8/20/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 300
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 12,000
Amount Saved: $3,000.00
Life Gained:
Days: 44 Hrs: 19 Mins: 56 Seconds: 32

14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 115

Thank you so much everybody.

And thank you, Goofy...I always feel as if I am sucking so much energy out of everybody else, constantly complaining and wondering. I am touched to hear that I helped you in your early quit. It means a lot to me. And thank you for the "good things happen to good people". I need to believe that right now. Even if I am sometimes all but sure I am "good"- I am human, like everybody else...

I would so much like to be the one who gives energy... Oh well, it will come someday.

Cat

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 4/14/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 63
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,260
Amount Saved: �289.80
Life Gained:
Days: 5 Hrs: 1 Mins: 37 Seconds: 8

14 years ago 0 +0 / -0 1107

Hey Cat,

I'm glad I checked in. Self pity? I have been separated from my wife for 8 months.. Recently lost my job..Smoke??? No way!! Smoking is harder to stop then any thing that could possibly happen in our lives. It is not the answer to any issue that may arise. Guess what? You will get to live long enough to experience the love you're looking for. Our emotions do run higher as we quit our life long friend of our addiction, but Cat, it's not going to help anything by starting over.\

I don't know if I make any sense, but I feel a special place for you as you helped me so much in my early quit. Please hang in there..good things do happen to good people.

Ron

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 10/28/2007
Smoke-Free Days: 597
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 23,880
Amount Saved: $3,761.10
Life Gained:
Days: 109 Hrs: 9 Mins: 34 Seconds: 24

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