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19 years ago 0 56 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
thanks guys. i know you are right. it's just that i work in sales and i have been taking time off b/c i have been sick and panicky so each day i take off my commission is lowered by 3% (whereas it is normally 15%)and i have to worry about my accounts being taken, etc. i do not have a college degree and i have found that advertising sales allows me to make a good $15-$21/hr if i work hard and get good sales and never less that $12/hr. here lately because of my time off i can tell my boss is frustrated with me - hence more anxiety and the urge to just throw in the towel, quit, run home and crawl in bed. i am also inside sales for a newspaper so i spend a great deal of time in front of a computer instead moving about. i also have a 6 yr old son who is in first grade and i long to be home with him after school and go on his field trips etc. my fiance is not his father and i cannot expect him to come into this situationa dn deal with my anxiety and then let me quit my job and stay home. i know i cannot do that, but i wish i could. thats all. i will try to keep my chin up and stick with it. thanks for thinking fo me and writing back!!!
19 years ago 0 93 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Dear Cookie, TO WORK, OR NOT TO WORK..... Trust me, DONT quit your job if you can possibly HANG IN THERE for a while it will be better for you in the long run. I am speaking from experience. I quit my job a while back and it actually made me worse. See, I began to have anxiety because I had no money coming in and it was even worse for me. I also know for sure that keeping your mind occupied with things (such as work, etc.) is good for you. When I stayed home for a while I sat around all day thinking about all of my problems and feeling sorry for myself which will definately worsen your condition. Also I became agoraphobic after a while and never wanted to leave the house. I have another job now and i'm doing alot better. I was really scared at first but things are finally looking up for me. I still have attacks, but not as many as i was having when I sat in the house all day every day all alone. Do what you think is right for yourself. It may be different for you, but I just wanted to share my story. Good luck! My favorite saying is, "control this thing, dont let it control you!" Sammi
19 years ago 0 151 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
((((cookie))) I know how you feel, how much strength it takes to face it each and every day. Stay with the job. I made the mistake of leaving my job thinking I could "get it together" if I wasnt stressed from work, but it was a huge mistake. Keep going to therapy, working with self-help books, taking your meds, keep a journal and get support here. You can find your path to recovery faster if you stay occupied both mentally and physically. sending prayers
19 years ago 0 56 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
all i want to do is stay home and not have to go to work. i am getting to where every day that i am there i am exptremely anxious and feel ill. we need the money, though, and i feel bad expecting or depending on my boyfriend to take care of me. i dont want to be a burden or a baby.

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